if you easily take offence with people

[c=004A59][i]what is the answer? to relax and chill out? i have stopped going to social gatherings because i was taking offence at people and the words they used whilst in conversation, the last social gathering i was at, i took offence with someone because of a word she used, i told her that word wasn't necessary, but she said it again and i stormed out the building.[/i][/c]