I have a situation for you, how do you feel about this?
You lay out a bunch of candy for your kid and tell them they can eat any of it that they want, except for one particular piece of candy. You tell them that no matter what, they cannot eat this candy. You tell them it'll make them sick and eventually kill them. At the same time you also know that someone is going to convince them to eat the candy. You know that this bad person is gonna trick your kid into eating it by lying to them n telling them that the candy is ok to eat, it's very tasty and that it'll make them as strong as their parents if they eat it. So your kid eats it, and when you find out that they ate it you punish them severely for disobeying you. Does this story sound kinda familiar?