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Those of you who once dated someone toxic, what were the red flags?

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REMsleep · 41-45, F
Lying, narcissistic behavior, always causing emotional pain.
MaLuna87MagiaLuna · 36-40, F
@REMsleep sounds like my ex-husband
SpaceCreature · 26-30, F
@REMsleep 😔
REMsleep · 41-45, F
@MaLuna87MagiaLuna Poor thing.💗 At least I didn't marry that person but I did break up and then went back to him a year later. Sometimes those relationships feel powerful but they are very bad.
MaLuna87MagiaLuna · 36-40, F
@REMsleep I actually hate my ex-husband, you know why? Because he pushed me to the limit, he told me there are no such things as visions, only dreams, that I am not a prophet or an oracle like in the movies! I should have left him when I could in 2011, but he said something that scared me, and I told myself that maybe the guy of my dreams will never exist, and seeing myself directing my none existing husband while I am pregnant with his baby and wearing my favorite teen years black t-shirt that has red drawings on it, will never come true, because it was just a dream, so I stayed in the toxic engagement and married my ex, knowing deep down I might never be happy, and it was true. Any guy who came from the way my father wanted my life to be is toxic, but the only difference is how a guy treats a woman. I never took the guy of my dreams, despite that he did exist, for real, and even when I got married back again after 7 years, he showed his real looks, when we both grew in our 30's. He did not have to believe the liars and avoid taking me, but what can I say? Sh!t happens. Would you end up looking at someone as a brother, if he was ever meant to be your future husband but someone else took his place?
SubstantialKick · 31-35, M
@REMsleep Wow, that's horrible.