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What's the best way to deal with a stalker?

A guy used to stalk me a few years back, but he went to prison for beating up his ex wife. He is out of prison now and back on the scene.

He was parked outside my house yetsterday and followed me to work. He's at most places I go and I can see him staring at me out the corner of my eye. I pretend I don't notice him . It's like he's letting me knows he's back again.

My husband works away and it's impossible for him to come home. I did contact the cops for advice but there isn't anything they can do. I don't even know the guys full name and I haven't actually been threatened.

What's the best way to deal with this situation without provoking the guy as he is violent?
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Frozenblaze · 100+, F Best Comment
Take self defence classes, let your friends and relatives know about it, write down his number plate, arm yourself (pepper spray, gun), let him know you're aware of his presence, take him pictures and don't give up going to report it to the police. I believe once they realise how relentless and threatened you are, they will take action.
Victorianna · 31-35, F
@Frozenblaze thanks so much for your advice. At least someone on here has intelligence to help
Frozenblaze · 100+, F
@Victorianna Thanks for BA, am humbled. I hope your stalker is dealt with and you get your peace of mind
Victorianna · 31-35, F
@Frozenblaze thank you