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I Regret Falling In Love

... with someone who has a child. Come on, hate me, go ahead. People who have children are heartless when it comes to relationships, and take my advice: do not get involved with someone who is a parent. Simply because you will never be number one, you'll always come (in the best case scenario) second. No matter how much you love them, and maybe even how much you love their kid(s).
And that is something I would be willing to accept and understand, I was aware of being the "less important" one and I did respect that. But once someone completely runs you over (and reverses, and runs you over again) for the sake of their parenthood, they dare to be mad at you for being hurt and upset. That's the best for my son/daughter, they say, irritated and annoyed with you feeling like the world collapsed. The only feelings they value are the feelings of their kids, and a normal person wouldn't purposely take an adult's time and heart if they weren't interested an adult interaction, but a parent doesn't give a $h!t if you're going to end up fooled and hurt. A parent will lead you on as long as it pleases them and dump you like trash, when things like custody battle occupy them. It maked me sick. Someone who's a crappy person cannot and will not be a good parent to a human being.
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Brassm0nk3y · 36-40, F
Oh man I've been in this situation.. the exact same thing happened to me was a disaster. I'm so happy I got out of it, started a relationship, married, now baby on the way with an older guy who didn't have that baggage. Don't think I could handle it again even if I were like way older and more mature
ListenerTalker · 31-35, F
@Brassm0nk3y: I'm glad you got out of the toxic situation and won. It's not worth it to live someone else's life. I wish you all the best while you raise your own family. <3