i had a dream about someone who i felt very hurt by
and i went off and said to her everything i wanted to say. got it alllllll off my chest. screamed and cried. and it did not make me feel any better. and maybe that's all the closure i needed 🙂↕
Strictsir · 26-30, M
Your subconscious is telling you to confront this person and to tell them exactly how you are feeling about their behaviour, even if this is a thorny issue that needs to be handled with care. Think carefully about what you want/need to say to them, and if there's no option but to be blunt and brutally honest about how they have left you feeling, then do so. Be warned: this could lead to the demise of a friendship, but ask yourself this - if this person is treating me this way and leaving me feeling such rage and frustration, is it really a friendship of any value at all? Good luck!!
Frostcloud · F
@Strictsir thank you, but i fear this friendship is already long gone. we haven't spoken in a great deal of time, but we had been besties for a decade, and so i'll always love her and she will always cross my mind. i think my dream was telling me there's nothing left to be done and it's time to really let go (*ᴗ͈ˬᴗ͈)ꕤ*.ﾟ
Strictsir · 26-30, M
@Frostcloud I'm afraid it does sound that way to me. For whatever reason(s), you have drifted apart, and it's time for you both to move on. Remember, though, that nothing is written in stone: you may find a few years down the line that one orveven both of you feel nostalgic for those old times and decide to reach out again to eachother. In the meantime, focus on your old friendships, ones made at school: these are usually the greatest and most enduring friendships of all. Also, try to make a few new acquaintances to fill the void you probably feel at this time. Best wishes.
JRVanguard · 26-30, M
Frostcloud · F
@JRVanguard it was a pleasure to love her and it's a pleasure to let her go ❤🩹
JRVanguard · 26-30, M
@Frostcloud You’ll always have the memories but won’t always have the pain🤗