i had a dream about someone who i felt very hurt by
and i went off and said to her everything i wanted to say. got it alllllll off my chest. screamed and cried. and it did not make me feel any better. and maybe that's all the closure i needed 🙂↕
Strictsir · 26-30, M
Your subconscious is telling you to confront this person and to tell them exactly how you are feeling about their behaviour, even if this is a thorny issue that needs to be handled with care. Think carefully about what you want/need to say to them, and if there's no option but to be blunt and brutally honest about how they have left you feeling, then do so. Be warned: this could lead to the demise of a friendship, but ask yourself this - if this person is treating me this way and leaving me feeling such rage and frustration, is it really a friendship of any value at all? Good luck!!
Frostcloud · F
@Strictsir thank you, but i fear this friendship is already long gone. we haven't spoken in a great deal of time, but we had been besties for a decade, and so i'll always love her and she will always cross my mind. i think my dream was telling me there's nothing left to be done and it's time to really let go (*ᴗ͈ˬᴗ͈)ꕤ*.ﾟ
JRVanguard · 26-30, M
Frostcloud · F
@JRVanguard it was a pleasure to love her and it's a pleasure to let her go ❤🩹
JRVanguard · 26-30, M
@Frostcloud You’ll always have the memories but won’t always have the pain🤗