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Who hates me?

There's a woman here who says there are people here who hate me. I respect that opinion because not everyone has to like me but hating is a different ball game altogether.

So im curious who hates me and what have I really done to cause that.

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summersong · F

Tbh I wouldn’t trust anyone who goes out of their way to tell you that people anywhere hate you.

SW-User

@summersong that makes sense. Why do u think this person says that

summersong · F

@SW-User that’s a good question. Could be jealousy or to manipulate who you interact with, or maybe they’re just a jerk.

SW-User

@summersong manipulate for sure

Quimliqer · 70-79, M

Angel, don’t let someone who does not know you cause you concern.

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Zonuss · 41-45, M

@Quimliqer I [b] totally [/b] agree with this. 🙂

BridgeOvertroubledWaters · 61-69, M

Don't pay attention to that.
Concentrate on the fact that there are people here that like you 👍

SW-User

@BridgeOvertroubledWaters u r right

BridgeOvertroubledWaters · 61-69, M

Luv you @SW-User 👍

SW-User

@BridgeOvertroubledWaters luv u back

ABCDEF7 · M

I know you have beautiful heart inside.

You know yourself better than those who hate you. Let them keep their opinion with themselves.

SW-User

@ABCDEF7 thank u dear 🤗

JerseyGal · 51-55, F

Honesty, I wouldn't listen to when anyone says something like that to you.
That makes me think that it's like in grade school. I wonder 🤔 if this person is jealous in some way. Who knows why!?
Some are all about the drama and try stirring up things.
I don't know you well, but from what I've seen, there are many who care for you. 🌻

SW-User

@JerseyGal I am just so tired of people who manipulate. Clearly this woman im talking about is emotionally immature.

Dainbramadge · 56-60, M

How the hell do you rate?
I want a hater.
Sounds like a simple thing to do here doesn't it?
Now I have been called an a****** in people's comments but I don't have a real hater. At least none that are active.
That I had one for a minute but they blocked me.
The reason I want a hater is because that is real love. Someone that goes out of their way to get your attention and keep it as long as they can. Someone who wants to have a profound effect on your well-being. Might be negative but I think that's love. :-)

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Dainbramadge · 56-60, M

@SW-User when you say way out do you mean like boil my pet bunny in a pan on my stove? You know that's true love. :-)

SW-User

@Dainbramadge u r mad

Dainbramadge · 56-60, M

@SW-User and sad.
You're nobody until someone hates you. Then you are top of the world. :-)

InOtterWords · F

Everyone has "haters" online. It goes gand in hand with being liked. The more you are liked the more haters you will have. It is fine if people want to put so much energy into negativity.

As for telling you there are people who hate you, they are playing mind games with you. They are trying to play on your insecurities.

There is an analogy i have used with my children that really helps when kids are mean to them and i think it works here too. Every person builds a safe wall around them of well being, safety, security. When someone does not have all their bricks, they may try and shortcut it by stealing a brick from someone else....this is what this person is doing. They are stealing your sense of security.

SW-User

@InOtterWords true

SW-User

@InOtterWords undoubtedly she was doing just that. This woman just doesn't leave me alone

AthrillatheHunt · 51-55, M

I’m quite ambivalent towards you.

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SW-User

@AthrillatheHunt thank u

AthrillatheHunt · 51-55, M

@SW-User will you marry me ? 😂

SW-User

@AthrillatheHunt hahaha i do

BarbossasHusband · 36-40, M

I don't. Even if I knew who you are I most likely wouldn't.

Tracos · 51-55, M

not me

SW-User

@Tracos thank u

Mindfulness

I like you, you're funny, intelligent and interesting. Don't give any credence to hate, if someone can have that emotion based on your posts then it's their issue not yours.

SW-User

@Mindfulness Rightly said. There was so much toxicity here that i took a nice break. I feel so much better now.

Thank u for saying that 😊

Houdini · 56-60, M

I don’t hate you in fact I don’t hate anyone hate is a very strong thing. I have had friends killed by people but I don’t hate them people as at the time they where just doing a job the same as us.

nedkelly · 61-69, M

I have not seen any comments that show any hatred or disrespect towards you at all

Ihopetolivehappily · M

Hating is just like liking sometimes.

Sometimes you like someone very much for no reason , I guess same goes for hate.

Some people even hate God, so you are safe to assume that you're hated by some too.

FYI : I DON'T HATE YOU.

SW-User

@Ihopetolivehappily That's a very nice thing u said. I have personally never hated anyone. For sure i have disliked people but never hated. It's too strong an emotion

Ihopetolivehappily · M

@SW-User I agree, but this is online people are outraged easily and hate easily.

Same People will not hate you in real life.

SW-User

@Ihopetolivehappily that's true. I agree with u

Fertilization · 36-40, F

I don’t hate you

SW-User

@Fertilization thank u

Hassan · 22-25, M

I always visit your profile to stimulate esoteric and mystic knowledge 😁 i think she's jealous of you bcz you trigger her unfocused self

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Hassan · 22-25, M

@SW-User that's why you need to go on vip.
I work at similar words. My job is to encourage people to buy vip👍😝

SW-User

@Hassan haha i was thinking to disconnect from this place for sometime and i just noticed your message on upgrading my account lol

Hassan · 22-25, M

@SW-User 😝😝😝😝

SW-User

How could I hate my own wife?

Rhode57 · 56-60, M

Not me

SW-User

Don't mind it.
Be grateful for the ones you like and about secret haters, don't mind them, even online they're very typical and hypocrite.
🙃

SW-User

@SW-User thank u hun. That makes sense

Zonuss · 41-45, M

If she hates you it's because she has the mindset of a child and shows a lack of respect and immaturity.. You're better than her. You're smarter than her. And you probably look better than her too. Don't walk to the [b]back [/b] of the line with these haters. Stay ahead because they will never ever be as awesome as you. 🙂🌞

SW-User

@Zonuss You are so kind to say that. I took a week's break from SW to detox from her lol

Torsten · 36-40, M

I dont hate you. I like you and whenever we have interacted, it has been very pleasant. Have nothing but good things to say or think about you

Barefooter25 · 46-50, M

Just ignore this person. We unfortunately have people on this site with elementary/jr. High school mentality. Just focus on the people who like you here.

smiler2012 · 56-60

personally i have no problem with you and you should take np notice of small minded petty jealousy of others [angel777]

SW-User

@smiler2012 you are right

Nayla · 51-55, F

I don't hate you. I don't know you. But I don't engage with your posts because you come across as very arrogant and conceited

SW-User

@Nayla Haha alright. That's your opinion.

NoGamesTolerated · F

There’s never a shortage of haters on SW but I think if they hate you, they are jealous! Chin up… don’t let anyone put out your light!! 🤗

Peaches · F

Who told you that? 🙄 She's probably full of sh!t and trying to start some drama!👎

SW-User

@Peaches there's only one woman here whose posts are full of negativity about others

Peaches · F

@SW-User Well thanks for letting me know.....🤷

ronisme1 · 61-69, M

Who are you?

Human1000 · M

With all due respect, you may have gone too deep here.

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Human1000 · M

@SW-User I don't think harm is required.

SW-User

@Human1000 fair point . In that case i shouldn't care

Human1000 · M

@SW-User I don't think we're totally immune from all caring, but maybe just put it in context.

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