I Hate Being Lied to

It's a difficult thing to forgive. I may have gotten better at forgiving, but I still find it to be a struggle to give liars a second chance.

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Lucky1970z

It hurts especially bad when your spouse lies to you. Doesn't matter if it is a lie told to you or if it is by ommission, it is still a lie. I have never felt worse pain than being lied to and deceived by the person I loved unconditionally. Unless there is true remorse and dedication to regain your trust, it is best to part ways with a liar.

AmayaTsuki

I used to give out second chances too easily. Now I never give second chances. I, honestly, don't think liars deserve second chances. It's really not that hard to tell the truth.

themanoflegends · 36-40, M

It's not always so clean cut. Sometimes they lie because they believe they are protecting you. Or because they (wrongfully) assume you would lash out and hurt their feelings if you knew the truth. But I agree, lies should not be forgiven easily, and lies that are repeated - never.

AmayaTsuki

Yeah, there are different types of lies - but a lie is a lie to me. Whether they're lying to protect my feelings or lying just for the fun of it, I won't give them another chance. If I give them nothing but honesty, there's no reason they can't do the same. I've been burned too many times and I don't put up with it anymore. That doesn't mean I won't forgive, for my own sake. But forgiving someone doesn't mean I'll let them back into my life.

Dawna1987

Don't give liars a second chance or the best thing u can do is make them know that if they will always lie, they will end up to be hurt not you. It is better to sleep on ur pillow knowing that you are real and not a liar or a fake person

VikingIcePrincess

I understand how you feel. I hope that I am not over simplifying.m

I see liars as being insecure, scared, immature....actually it doesn't matter. The question for me becomes....do I have room for them in my life?

butterflymari

I agree with you.. it's difficult to forgive lies specially from someone you care so much. N then trusting becomes an issue.

Kristenw15

I understand the same thing honestly..

sweetpetals

i know the feeling

toreffects

I understand. ..

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