Ok so I got rid of most of my male facebook friends when we first started dating. (This was over 4 years ago) I have a few guys that I’m cool with but we dont ever talk. But my boyfriend was getting all mad about me posting that 2 piece swimsuit earlier on facebook. Saying he knows I got other men on my Facebook who he doesn’t want to see me wearing it. But what difference does it make whenever I go out in public to the pool and I’m wearing it 🤔 there’s gonna be men there too seeing me in it. I mean, does he just think I got the 2 piece just to wear around the house? We don’t even have a pool like oh what ? You think I’m just gonna wear it in the bathtub?
Just so y’all know, we have another therapy session tomorrow, so I’m definitely gonna bring this up.
This page is a permanent link to the reply below and its nested replies. See all post replies »
In my opinion, In his mind the guys on your Facebook page have "access" to you. Whereas, strangers at the pool are only just "looking", he cannot control people's eyes but he doesn't know whether one of those guys on FB may messege you, and not having THAT control is whats bothering him.
@AngelUnforgiven he said that he saw the comment that the guys were making and he didn’t like it, but keep in mind they wasn’t even saying anything bad they were just saying they haven’t seen me post in a while.
And plus most of those guys have wives and kids they have a family. Nobody said anything concerning at all.
