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Despite how much sex I’ve had, I’m actually pretty vanilla

I prefer doing the simple things personally but that doesn’t mean I’m not open into doing other things . Even with my boyfriend. I mean, we do get nasty but there’s no creative play going on. I do like the idea of being dominated by him and him handcuffing me to the bed. I’d wanna do that with him 😋😋 because I’ve done it before with past clients who were into that but I just couldn’t get involved and make it work for them to get something from it. We have to emotionally connect in order for it to work. I feel like with my boyfriend, we’d end up liking it because I’m actually willing to be his assistant because we both share a bond. Don’t get me wrong, I bonded with my clients too but I just wasn’t emotionally attached to them. I was supposed to be because that’s kinda what you do with sex work, that’s what they’re paying you for. I was just so focused in on making money than actually being there emotionally for them. I was just there physically.
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DunningKruger · 61-69, M
I've often wondered how sex workers dealt with sex in their regular relationships.
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DunningKruger · 61-69, M
@TurtleEclipseOfTheHeart So, was it a case of you had pretty vanilla sex in your actual relationships because having sex with your clients was more experimental (for lack of a better term), or do you think your sex life would be vanilla even if you hadn't been a sex worker?
@DunningKruger maybe a bit of both. I mean, I’m just not interested in doing all the BDSM stuff in general. And that’s always been the case for me.
DunningKruger · 61-69, M
@TurtleEclipseOfTheHeart How about less vanilla but not BDSM kinds of sex? Group sex, or what have you? What interests you, or is it all "been there, done that"?