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Despite how much sex I’ve had, I’m actually pretty vanilla

I prefer doing the simple things personally but that doesn’t mean I’m not open into doing other things . Even with my boyfriend. I mean, we do get nasty but there’s no creative play going on. I do like the idea of being dominated by him and him handcuffing me to the bed. I’d wanna do that with him 😋😋 because I’ve done it before with past clients who were into that but I just couldn’t get involved and make it work for them to get something from it. We have to emotionally connect in order for it to work. I feel like with my boyfriend, we’d end up liking it because I’m actually willing to be his assistant because we both share a bond. Don’t get me wrong, I bonded with my clients too but I just wasn’t emotionally attached to them. I was supposed to be because that’s kinda what you do with sex work, that’s what they’re paying you for. I was just so focused in on making money than actually being there emotionally for them. I was just there physically.
I'm more of a switch but towards the vanilla side myself and it's like sure if you want me dominant in there but I'd want you to do it back to me when we were done. and i'm not suggesting pegging either.
DunningKruger · 61-69, M
I've often wondered how sex workers dealt with sex in their regular relationships.
DunningKruger · 61-69, M
@TurtleEclipseOfTheHeart So, was it a case of you had pretty vanilla sex in your actual relationships because having sex with your clients was more experimental (for lack of a better term), or do you think your sex life would be vanilla even if you hadn't been a sex worker?
@DunningKruger maybe a bit of both. I mean, I’m just not interested in doing all the BDSM stuff in general. And that’s always been the case for me.
DunningKruger · 61-69, M
@TurtleEclipseOfTheHeart How about less vanilla but not BDSM kinds of sex? Group sex, or what have you? What interests you, or is it all "been there, done that"?
MarineBob · 56-60, M
Maybe he wants the same but doesn't want to scare you off
Whyme · 46-50, M
That was very honest of you

 
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