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How to stop obsessing and crying over someone who rejected me?

MoonlightLullaby · 41-45, F
Whether rejection or plain old heartbreak, you will one day regret and laugh that you ever wasted a tear. Promise.🌼
poisonouscupcake · 22-25, F
fuck their sibling
poisonouscupcake · 22-25, F
@Elessar it’s the first thing that popped into my head should i be worried
Elessar · 26-30, M
@poisonouscupcake I don't know, I'm trying to imagine it and I don't know if if I'd feel disgusted more, or if I'd start making fun of my hypothetical sibling first. Or just laughing at the situation overall 😅
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[center]love loves to trick
to steal and to cheat
to stab deep and quick
to devour complete
to pull feel the click
I lie dead at love's feet
yeah love gets a kick
outta me

love loves to break
to shatter the will
to flatter an ache
to splatter its kill
a mad hatter to rake
all the pain it can till
yeah love loves to take
its fill

one of my favorites of mine
by me 2013[/center]
smiler2012 · 56-60
{@julianadenise ] first of all i am sorry that rejection has effected you this way . it is a natural feeling to this and nothing to be ashamed of . it is a old clique but time is a great healer .perhaps you need to draw a line under this and try and move forward not easy
SW-User
You learn to live better with the pain each passing day. If you truly loved someone you will for the rest of your life but not as intense if it isn’t true love then you do move on and stop caring about them.
CestManan · 46-50, F
Great wisdom is called for in this situation. And so here is what I was told, the best way to get over someone is to get under someone else.
Magenta · F
No amount of [i]words[/i] will help, in my experience. It takes time unfortunately. Get busy and do things you are passionate about.

I'm sorry.
Mindful · 56-60, F
Have you ever rejected someone just because you were not quite interested in them?
Aquarius39 · 41-45, F
Don't let people break you. Move on.
Focusing on the reality of who he or she is may help. Everyone has flaws and sometimes no character. The person surely isn't all he or she is cracked up to be. People are always better in fantasy than reality.
greenmountaingal · 70-79, F
Keep remembering all of your good points, all of the things about you that you like. Then start feeling sorry for the rejector.
Honestly, get over it. Theyre not god. Your ego is bruised which is normal but its not the end of the world.
Elessar · 26-30, M
You’re grieving. It will pass, but it would probably pass a bit more easily with a focus on other people and activities.
Donotfolowme · 51-55, F
Awww 😕 just think that as part of life n move on

 
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