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Is it OK to let my daughter wear a thong bikini to the beach?

Seems more common these days compared to a few years ago.

Sorry! I didn’t realize that this honest question would cause such hostile answers.

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daddybloke · 46-50, M

i don't see why not ?

SW-User

If she's under 10 then that would be gross

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SW-User

@Synyster yeah true

indyjoe · 56-60, M

@Synyster I'd go as high as 21...but in the very least under the legal age of 18.

Synyster · 51-55, M

@indyjoe I was gonna say 18 as well.

4meAndyou · F

I don't know...do you want your daughter treated like a prostitute? She will be propositioned, ogled, comments will be made that she might not know how to handle, and anyone who sees her will decide she is "asking for it", and they will try to give it to her. Is that OK with you?

Glossy · F

Age related. Also depends what you are wearing, too.

melbeacher · 61-69, M

I live in Florida and my daughter and her friends wear the smallest bikinis

djjohnson · 41-45, M

How old is she? Just got to keep in mind that such outfits inspire specific thoughts. If she is ok with being thought of that way then ok. But it has always confused me why some women go out wearing very little and get annoyed when guys stare at them. (Not saying that it means it’s ok to harass women dressed like that. But looking is to be expected).

greenmountaingal · 70-79, F

I'd want to discuss with her why she wants to wear it and how she sees herself. And her age counts, too. How old is she? How ready is she to accept the reaction of other people to her wearing certain kinds of garments? Doing so could put her under more pressure than she realizes.

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Binaural · 31-35, M

Depends how old she is

indyjoe · 56-60, M

You and her just go find and visit a nudist beach...she (and you) would draw less attention. It may sound ridiculous to you but it is true.

Shayama · F

She should not unless she is over 20.
Also its ok to wear in a private pool.
Not in public.
Thats my advice

cd4259 · 61-69, M

If both you and she are comfortable and happy for her to wear it why not.

greenmountaingal · 70-79, F

@cd4259 This basically leaves the decision up to the daughter who may be very young.

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indyjoe · 56-60, M

@TheSociopathicSadomasochist I happen to be 52 and I know a lot of guys my age....we don't do that. "Wanking off" does happen, but it happens at any age so don't just pin it on certain age groups.

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JBird · F

I don't think any parents would like that. But again that's her choice

pointswithpinky · 46-50, M

If you and she are comfortable with it, why not?

greenmountaingal · 70-79, F

@pointswithpinky The daughter may not be mature enough or psychologically strong enough to know how to respond to the kind of attention she might get dressed like that.