Women Would you rather give birth or go to war?
[c=#4C0073]I have a guy who believes women wouldn’t get pregnant to avoid the draft. So I need to know would you rather go to war or have a child?[/c]
31-35, F
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BlueMetalChick · 26-30, F
Considering that my one experience with pregnancy left me with a hole the diameter of a softball in my abdomen that very nearly killed me, I'm not too keen on giving birth.
And, I was born in a war zone and lived through it for ten years of my childhood so it's not like I haven't seen it before. I'd especially like to go to war if it were in my home country and I could fight to defend the people who are being slaughtered in a genocide there. I am generally against killing other people but I'd love nothing more than to violently murder Wahhabi soldiers. I hate their fucking names.
And, I was born in a war zone and lived through it for ten years of my childhood so it's not like I haven't seen it before. I'd especially like to go to war if it were in my home country and I could fight to defend the people who are being slaughtered in a genocide there. I am generally against killing other people but I'd love nothing more than to violently murder Wahhabi soldiers. I hate their fucking names.
VioletRayne · 31-35, F
@BlueMetalChick [c=#4C0073]Thats another thing it wouldn’t be fair to women who are barren. Because they would be forced to serve whereas a single mother would automatically be excluded.[/c]
@BlueMetalChick [c=#359E00]you still can have baby right?[/c]
BlueMetalChick · 26-30, F
@YukikoAmagi No. I cannot get pregnant anymore. I mean, I CAN get pregnant, but the fetus would die within a few weeks because I no longer have a functioning womb.
BlueMetalChick · 26-30, F
@YukikoAmagi Losing my child was incredibly difficult even though I hadn't even intended to get pregnant to begin with. And I also had to spend nearly three weeks in the hospital, so that sucked.
@BlueMetalChick [c=#359E00]this is sad[/c] 😭
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@BlueMetalChick so weve both lost children...
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VioletRayne · 31-35, F
@BlueMetalChick [c=#4C0073]I didn’t know that. I’m very sorry that happened😞😞🤗 [/c]
BlueMetalChick · 26-30, F
@CrustyDDingus Justin, please don't.
BlueMetalChick · 26-30, F
@YukikoAmagi It was a disaster on all fronts. The pregnancy was unplanned. It happened because, against all odds, a condom actually broke on me. Condom companies always tout that their products function 99.9% of the time, which is true, but apparently I was unlucky enough to be in the 0.1% that encountered a malfunction.
So I hadn't wanted to get pregnant, but I decided to take the route of adoption because I actually did know a couple looking to adopt a baby. It never happened though because five months into the pregnancy, I went through the windshield of a Buick at 60mph and landed on a mailbox.
So I hadn't wanted to get pregnant, but I decided to take the route of adoption because I actually did know a couple looking to adopt a baby. It never happened though because five months into the pregnancy, I went through the windshield of a Buick at 60mph and landed on a mailbox.
VioletRayne · 31-35, F
@CrustyDDingus dude that was the most disgusting thing you could’ve done. I usually don’t delete entries but this is horrific.
BlueMetalChick · 26-30, F
@VioletRayne It's alright, he wasn't trying to be offensive. He and I are pretty close and I openly talk about a lot of really fucked up shit with him, especially about my personal life.
SW-User
@VioletRayne agreed. If some fool had tried to psychoanalyze me over my daughter's death, I might break his goddam face
BlueMetalChick · 26-30, F