Women Would you rather give birth or go to war?
I have a guy who believes women wouldn’t get pregnant to avoid the draft. So I need to know would you rather go to war or have a child?
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VioletRayne · 36-40, F
@BeefySenpie Tell it. She out here giving you heirs?
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BlueMetalChick · 26-30, F
Considering that my one experience with pregnancy left me with a hole the diameter of a softball in my abdomen that very nearly killed me, I'm not too keen on giving birth.
And, I was born in a war zone and lived through it for ten years of my childhood so it's not like I haven't seen it before. I'd especially like to go to war if it were in my home country and I could fight to defend the people who are being slaughtered in a genocide there. I am generally against killing other people but I'd love nothing more than to violently murder Wahhabi soldiers. I hate their fucking names.
And, I was born in a war zone and lived through it for ten years of my childhood so it's not like I haven't seen it before. I'd especially like to go to war if it were in my home country and I could fight to defend the people who are being slaughtered in a genocide there. I am generally against killing other people but I'd love nothing more than to violently murder Wahhabi soldiers. I hate their fucking names.
BlueMetalChick · 26-30, F
@VioletRayne It's alright, he wasn't trying to be offensive. He and I are pretty close and I openly talk about a lot of really fucked up shit with him, especially about my personal life.
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@VioletRayne agreed. If some fool had tried to psychoanalyze me over my daughter's death, I might break his goddam face
BlueMetalChick · 26-30, F
lequack · 26-30, F
@BlueMetalChick Personally I’m more worried about things happening in my own country.That’s not to say those things don’t matter as well, but the US only gets into wars that would benefit us somehow and pretend like it was for the greater good.
VioletRayne · 36-40, F
@Dewms 😆😂🤣 LoL I love you
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Miram · 31-35, F
I already went to war without a choice, without weapons.
I'd not bring a new life into this world out of personal fears. That's selfish and stupid.
I'd go to war as long as it's for defense, which I can't say was the case for most of modern western wars. I don't believe in serving politicians.
In which case I will break the law avoiding military service through other means.
I'd not bring a new life into this world out of personal fears. That's selfish and stupid.
I'd go to war as long as it's for defense, which I can't say was the case for most of modern western wars. I don't believe in serving politicians.
In which case I will break the law avoiding military service through other means.
Danez · M
@SW-User or alien 😂🤣🤣
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Danez · M
@silentkillx2 give me 20 (please) 😁
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@silentkillx2 if you want to.
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VioletRayne · 36-40, F
@PlumBerries I understand. It wouldn’t be that big of a deal to me because I already have two beautiful babies. It’d just be another for me to love.
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BlueMetalChick · 26-30, F
@StarlingDark Ehhhh careful there, wars are not always fought to answer a call. I currently live in the United States and we're in nine different wars right now, all of which are for deplorable motives. We're funding lots of Muslim terrorist groups and even supporting two separate genocides right now.
Pfuzylogic · M
Lol I can’t see myself getting pregnant just to avoid war and I can’t see myself going to war for any reason either. My life would suck with either option I’d chose. 😂 I’m fine with dying if it ended up getting that bad, life is already annoying enough. So, if it got that bad to where I’d have to be force to go to war or force to have a child I don’t want, I’m not ready for, or prepared for in anyway just so I wouldn’t be forced to go to war I would just kind of go ahead and give up there. Life cannot be that great if choices like that becomes the norm. 🙈😆 I refuse to go to war for any reason and I refuse to have kids I don’t want. Selfish or not 🤷🏽♀️
@VioletRayne Yeah, I’m not one for war and honestly I’ve always felt that way I refuse under any circumstances. I’m also wary about children, they’re so easy to fuck up if I am to ever have them I would need to be ready and it’d need to be with someone who’s also ready.
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Miram · 31-35, F
@VioletRayne Word to the wise, you get what you put in this world and you're what you see in it.
You liked my harassment for the second time. The only reason I will end this here is because of my respect for Bijoux. I have no respect nor intention to empathize with prideful ignorance espacially coming from someone who encourages negativity. 👋
You liked my harassment for the second time. The only reason I will end this here is because of my respect for Bijoux. I have no respect nor intention to empathize with prideful ignorance espacially coming from someone who encourages negativity. 👋
VioletRayne · 36-40, F
@Miram I love Ti Ti Bijoux but Word to the wise I don’t give a flying fruitcake what you have or don’t have respect for. I don’t right care how you do or don’t see me. There are plenty of people who know that I don’t subscribe to negativity or whatever you want to attribute to me. As previously stated I didnt mean anything by it. But since you are so offended by something so insignificant it’s down right silly. There is a block button and you are welcome to use it.
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VioletRayne · 36-40, F
@GreenGoddess yeap that counts
GreenGoddess · F
@VioletRayne Then I'm already gucci.
AmbivalentFriability · 26-30
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I'd presume that most women would want to go to war, as giving birth is a very painful process. Plus, if they didn't have to fight and be a medic, then that's a win/win scenario.
VioletRayne · 36-40, F
@SW-User Women go to combat now. They aren’t just going to sideline people because they’re women.
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@VioletRayne I know that, but in this scenario if they had to choose, they could choose this option if they didn't want to pickup a gun.
Ewitsu · F
Fucking no to both
VioletRayne · 36-40, F
@Ewitsu Im sorry you feel that way. No life is meaningless 🤗
R5000 · 41-45, M
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VioletRayne · 36-40, F
@Miram Thats another point, realistically how many people are going to commit a crime that would label them as treasonous within the bounds of the law rather than have a child? I know a few people will probably kill themselves. These are the kinds of situations drafting puts people in.
I don’t sugar coat abortion. It’s murder and I’ve never had one nor would I ever unless I was raped n it resulted in a child. But I’m not going to sit on my high horse and judge the decisions of another. Especially when we have a foster care system that is over run. Poverty is widespread and we have no idea the quality of life that child will have. There are things worse than death and I would rather not put a child through them.
I don’t sugar coat abortion. It’s murder and I’ve never had one nor would I ever unless I was raped n it resulted in a child. But I’m not going to sit on my high horse and judge the decisions of another. Especially when we have a foster care system that is over run. Poverty is widespread and we have no idea the quality of life that child will have. There are things worse than death and I would rather not put a child through them.
Miram · 31-35, F
@VioletRayne Yet you find it rational to justify that choice when it's to avoid a draft. You romanticize the consequences in that case despite the intentions. And you consider the worst when it comes to abortions. Remember I did say as a contraceptive method so "poverty" is irrelevant. I am comparing to that.
No, you don't have to commit a crime. You're already committing a felony by refusing the draft and will go to jail. Same for doing things to avoid it.
No, you don't have to commit a crime. You're already committing a felony by refusing the draft and will go to jail. Same for doing things to avoid it.
VioletRayne · 36-40, F
@Miram I said that is their choice. I’m not going to judge them either way. There are reasonings for or against and whose to say they will actually have these babies. Some I’m sure will use abortion as a contraception method as you said. I’m saying having a child isn’t all that bad. I have two that I love dearly so having another isn’t a bother for me. It’s just another child to love. Then again as I’ve said like fifty times already I would be an exception already!