CheekyBadger · M
Depends, I have been invited to some cousins weddings and not others. But if I am invited then I will make an effort to go as it is easy for families to drift apart as everyone spreads out so it is rare to get an opportunity to catch up with everyone in person.
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
I'm not close to my cousins either and there are no conflicts between us. I go to their weddings because I join my immediate family. Oftentimes events like this bring people closer and they act differently.
I'm pretty asocial, so no hard feelings from my side.
I'm pretty asocial, so no hard feelings from my side.

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I could go if there were other people I liked there. But I wouldn’t feel obligated to do anything given the circumstances.
Punches · 46-50, F
Do not bother going if you do not want to be there.
If they are never at gatherings anyways, no one even knows them that well.
Do not forget though, there might be free food, drink and a fun reception.
Maybe make an appearance, look around to see if there is anything worth sticking around for, and if not, politely duck out.
If they are never at gatherings anyways, no one even knows them that well.
Do not forget though, there might be free food, drink and a fun reception.
Maybe make an appearance, look around to see if there is anything worth sticking around for, and if not, politely duck out.
I wouldn't go.

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Nope
Starcrossed · 41-45, F
Probably, not to see said cousin but other more awesome cousins I do like.
iamnikki · 31-35, F
@Starcrossed I don't have any awesome cousins. It's like I'm alone in the family.
cherokeepatti · 61-69, F
No. Had a niece that invited me to her wedding. I could over to her house to visit with her sister and she’d see me and say Hi and Bye and that was it. I sent her a graduation gift and she did send a thank you note but other than that nothing. So I didn’t go.
iamnikki · 31-35, F
@cherokeepatti If I do go, I definelty won't be getting her a gift. I won't even sit down to eat at the reception. I will also not carpool with anyone.
cd4259 · 61-69, M
Have you been invited?
Jenny1234 · 56-60, F
I probably would not go
REMsleep · 41-45, F
Only go if you want to. Don't feel any obligation. If you want to see extended family or just enjoy people watching with your mom then go. If not then don't go. They probably won't think twice about your decision if they don't personally invite you.
SomeMichGuy · M
Your call.
I might bail
I might bail
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TheOneyouwerewarnedabout · 46-50, MVIP
free piss?..im in
pancakeslam · 41-45, M
yeah I would go but spread lots of nasty rumors about them
tenente · 100+, M
nope 👍
Don't go if You don't want to, reciprocate in kind.