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What has your experience in this life been like as the gender you are ?

Do you like it and feel comfortable?
Is it miserable ?
being · 36-40, F
It took me almost 40 years to get off the power trip and I'm now beginning to appreciate my inherent softness 💗
being · 36-40, F
@Intuitive yes nowadays it's very sweet and I'm able to enjoy it.
But I've spent a lifetime fighting.
Intuitive · F
@being I feel I did as well. Not feeling safe made me much rougher than I wanted to be.
being · 36-40, F
@Intuitive it's gone now 😊
Ontheroad · M
I am fine with being a male and to be honest, seeing what women go through on so many different fronts, I'd not want to be a woman.
Secretsmile · 51-55, F
I love my life and being a woman. I have a few regrets but not so many. And we all have our moments. Just living life to the fullest.
I don't like it much, but it is what it is and I'll just try to be a better man than most.
I was raised by two people who both had careers and a family they loved. My parents never told us that women had to do one or the other, which I appreciated.
Intuitive · F
@bijouxbroussard That's really nice.
HobNoblin · 36-40, M
I do, it's pretty awesome. I can pick up an engine block. Other men can pick up a 55 gallon drum full of hydraulic oil and put it in a pickup truck. I could do that too if I worked at it. All those guys backs are shot by 40 though.
jehova · 31-35, M
I strongly believe (and used to flashback to regularly) my gender being assigned at birth without my parents knowledge or consent. So yea. . .
I wrote a story about it a while ago. 😅

https://similarworlds.com/disease-illness/4631624-Everything-about-me-thats-female-tried-to-kill-me

These days, I’m comfortable with it. It’s not negative or positive; it just doesn’t matter all that much.
sirweighsalot · 22-25, M
I used to be really ashamed due to all of the blaming in the 2010s
BeJeweled · F
I was born a female and would never want to be a male. 💃🏼
Intuitive · F
@BeJeweled Same. But for me it has been difficult .
Felina · F
“Halloween” lol 😂

Well I love being a woman but when I’m personally unwell I do wish I had the strength of a panther 🐆 💃🏻

Sigh I am but a mere mortal 🙏🏼
Intuitive · F
@Felina I hate having to title everything and pick categories so I just pick the silkiest thing I can find :) Same I do love being a woman as well just not the injustice of how we are treated.
I don't mind it, tho it's given aspects can be annoying
Alyosha · 31-35, M
Just fly below the radar and you're fine.
1490wayb · 56-60, M
having a hillbilly accent made it more difficult
SW-User
I have been abused, I have been the abuser.
I’ve been controlled and have taken control over others.
People have put me in the hospital and I’ve put others there as well.

I’ve taught and learned. It’s been a full life.
Intuitive · F
@SW-User For me. ...being hurt made me never want to harm any innocent ....because I know how it feels.
It's the ones who aren't innocent in certain ways I want to suffer their karma .

 
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