How do I ask a friend if she's happy with her boyfriend?

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SW-User

The minute you ask her that she will think your real motivation is taking his place & it will ruin your friendship.

GohantheThird · M

Reasons I don't ask lol. I've met the guy and he's okay. I just worry, that's all.

SW-User

What makes you worry?

GohantheThird · M

@CtrlAltDelicious: She disappears for days or weeks on end with zero explanation, and I can't tell if it's because she's avoiding him or not. It might not be him at all.

PreciselyUs · 46-50, C

@XamadtheFirst: Maybe it's you she's avoiding?

GohantheThird · M

@PreciselyUs: Doubt it. Could be nothing at all.