imagine crying about your obtuse little obviously ill-informed/emotionally-clouded "brainstorming" argument for days on end

Tbh it kinda sounds like an existential crisis because, for me, until you present the specific facts or examples, then everyone can just say whatever, and as long as they don't use hurtful language or personal insults or stay politically correct it will just go on forever and without an outcome. It reminds me of how when Black Lives Matter started some people were like "oh you mean black lives matter [i]too[/i]", there's just lots of nuance that people are leaving out on purpose, either because they don't want to lose a friendship or because they want to test the friendship.