I've been told that I say "genuinely awful" things. So maybe some introspection is needed.

I can open my own door, no problem.
But there is something nice about a man who will open a door for me.
Maybe its just subconscious programming of how it is meant to make me feel and I don't need to introspect on that....yet. 😂

Your writing style reminds me of Pete Davidson

Holding doors open as opposed to leave them slam into another person's face is a common decency where I come from. I heard that's not the case in some Asian countries though.

I've had women open doors for me (in America) lol. It's great to hold them open for others.