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Hello everyone, My name is Kelly and I'm new here. So I have an embarrassing mole on my stomach and some friends of mine are trying to convince me to take belly dancing classes with them. I think it would be fun, and I've not been self conscious about it much until now. Am I overanalyzing and making a mountain out of a molehill?

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Mamapolo2016 · F Best Comment

Yes, you are. 😊 Moles are often considered sexy. In a belly dancing costume, do you really think anybody's going to be focused on the mole?

Montanaman · M

That's my name too!🤪😁🤭😎🌹🦋

Justafantasy · M

Just do it. Have some fun

samueltyler2 · 80-89, M

LOL!

Navelluster · 41-45, M

you are a very sexy and beautiful woman. I think you would make a great belly dancer

Mamapolo2016 · F

A little more confidence: women with moles include Cindy Crawford, Marilyn Monroe, Sherilynn Fenn, Eva Mendes, Goldie Hawn

too bad...they might have been really attractive...

AbbyS94 · F

It doesn't sound like an issue. Just go ahead and have fun. You are probably more aware of it than anyone else will be 🙂

SW-User

You're overanalyzing it for sure... that said... you do have to work at your pace, to what your comfortable with.

jerMIguy · 41-45, M

A molehill?!? Bwahaha! I know it wasn’t supposed to be funny, but it just caught me wrong! :)

Go for it. Don’t worry about what you look like. You look beautiful to me!

easterniowegin · 51-55, M

So I have to ask...did you end up taking those belly dancing classes? How did you work through it?

TallMtnMedic · M

Welcome Kelly!
Belly dancing is a good workout ice heard from some friends, but they absolutely love it. Moles dont really matter.

NotJamieM · 46-50, M

Go for it. I bet no one even notices. They'll all be too intent on getting the dancing down.

Shipwrecked · 46-50, M

Welcome aboard!! I think, you should go ahead with the belly dancing...😊👍

Batman · 41-45, M

Hi my name is Raymond nice to meet you and welcome to the party🤪

Poet626 · 31-35, M

You should do it! In my opinion you have a lovely belly and I bet you would be an amazing belly dancer!

XDHyperGirlXD1 · 31-35, F

I wanted ice cream not ice breaker :(

Pretzel · 61-69, M

it isn't a mole

it's a "beauty mark"

WellFrog · 56-60, M

Our little physical insecurities tend to be magnified through the lens of self-conciousness. Since your other post served to reveal said mole to anyone here who looks, I would say you have made strides toward letting the mole be just one of those things that illustrate that you are unique, individual, you.

SW-User

Welcome to sw

KathyKay · 31-35, F

LOL YES!

Lostpoet · M

Lol. Nice pun

mountainman1234 · 70-79, M

I think you are over thinking this just go and enjoy yourself ,,,, it has been part of you for along time and it is just a beauty mark ,,, personally I think it looks grand …..

Sithlizard · 51-55, M

Go for it! Nobody but you cares about the mole, trust me.

callis40 · 46-50, M

go for it. i understand how personel an issue it can be for you and soo many people hate their looks, however its whats on the inside that counts the rest is packagning. your a beautiful women and people will be watching your dancing not your mole. so please dont worry

SW-User

I don't think it'll be a problem - esp with all the friends there to support you. Might help you lose your self-consciousness about it

djjohnson · 41-45, M

Just relax! Attitude means more to most people. And those who do care about such things the most aren't worth the time anyway.

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approachingmyexpirationdate · 61-69, M

Molehill that's funny :)

Hope you are enjoying it here.

And I hope you are taking the classes.

mountainman1234 · 70-79, M

I think you are making to much out of it go have a good time and enjoy something new ,,,

romell · 51-55, M

has anyone said it doesnt look good ...i guess not then why worry

romell · 51-55, M

what u may consider as a draw back may be your USP...just go for it..

Motosh72 · 51-55, M

Let’s see, and I can give an honest opinion.... 🧐

PeterJ · 56-60, M

Sounds like you might have some fun. Go for it !

Pretzel · 61-69, M

people would be looking at your pretty face and smile!

tinyweeny · 70-79, M

is it 4or5 inches across or does it stick away out.

MrGoodbar · 51-55, M

Come chat with me we can discuss in more detail

vetguy1991 · 51-55, M

I think it isn't that big of a deal

PeterJ · 56-60, M

I'd say just do it and have some fun.

passion · 56-60, M

Let's chat....I tried to PM you

TimingQuasars

I wonder how it looks...

SW-User

Over analyzing

Motosh72 · 51-55, M

Let’s take a look....!!! 😉

needsmilk808 · 56-60, M

Are you taking the lessons?

plungesponge · 41-45, M

If it's a raised mole, try using some cider vinegar on it

homespun2 · 70-79, M

YES YOU SURE ARE

passion · 56-60, M

Hey! Let's chat!

gdon39 · 46-50, M

Hehe...very punny. You’re probably making to much of it unless it looks like Donald trump Lol. Take the class💃

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rfhh1959 · 61-69, M

I would say yes as most people do not think about you as much as you image

Withintent · M

Just do it.

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