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Icebreaker

Hello everyone, My name is Kelly and I'm new here. So I have an embarrassing mole on my stomach and some friends of mine are trying to convince me to take belly dancing classes with them. I think it would be fun, and I've not been self conscious about it much until now. Am I overanalyzing and making a mountain out of a molehill?
Mamapolo2016 · F Best Comment
Yes, you are. 😊 Moles are often considered sexy. In a belly dancing costume, do you really think anybody's going to be focused on the mole?

Navelluster · 41-45, M
you are a very sexy and beautiful woman. I think you would make a great belly dancer
Montanaman · M
That's my name too!🤪😁🤭😎🌹🦋
Just do it. Have some fun
A little more confidence: women with moles include Cindy Crawford, Marilyn Monroe, Sherilynn Fenn, Eva Mendes, Goldie Hawn

too bad...they might have been really attractive...
AbbyS94 · F
It doesn't sound like an issue. Just go ahead and have fun. You are probably more aware of it than anyone else will be 🙂
jerMIguy · 41-45, M
A molehill?!? Bwahaha! I know it wasn’t supposed to be funny, but it just caught me wrong! :)

Go for it. Don’t worry about what you look like. You look beautiful to me!
Welcome Kelly!
Belly dancing is a good workout ice heard from some friends, but they absolutely love it. Moles dont really matter.
SW-User
You're overanalyzing it for sure... that said... you do have to work at your pace, to what your comfortable with.
Poet626 · 31-35, M
You should do it! In my opinion you have a lovely belly and I bet you would be an amazing belly dancer!
easterniowegin · 51-55, M
So I have to ask...did you end up taking those belly dancing classes? How did you work through it?
SW-User
I think if you don't like molle, you can get it removed by laser treatment I guess ☺️
Shipwrecked · 46-50, M
Welcome aboard!! I think, you should go ahead with the belly dancing...😊👍
NotJamieM · 46-50, M
Go for it. I bet no one even notices. They'll all be too intent on getting the dancing down.
Sithlizard · 51-55, M
Go for it! Nobody but you cares about the mole, trust me.
Go for it. Often a mole on a woman looks sexy. What do you have to lose?
Batman · 41-45, M
Hi my name is Raymond nice to meet you and welcome to the party🤪
496sbc · 36-40, M
Hey you look beautiful i dont even see the darn thing.
WellFrog · 56-60, M
Our little physical insecurities tend to be magnified through the lens of self-conciousness. Since your other post served to reveal said mole to anyone here who looks, I would say you have made strides toward letting the mole be just one of those things that illustrate that you are unique, individual, you.
Beetlejuice68 · 56-60, M
I think your mole looks sexy ;)
homespun2 · 70-79, M
@Beetlejuice68 so do i
XDHyperGirlXD1 · 31-35, F
I wanted ice cream not ice breaker :(
callis40 · 46-50, M
go for it. i understand how personel an issue it can be for you and soo many people hate their looks, however its whats on the inside that counts the rest is packagning. your a beautiful women and people will be watching your dancing not your mole. so please dont worry
Pretzel · 61-69, M
it isn't a mole

it's a "beauty mark"
SW-User
Welcome to sw
KathyKay · 31-35, F
Lostpoet · M
Lol. Nice pun
mountainman1234 · 70-79, M
I think you are over thinking this just go and enjoy yourself ,,,, it has been part of you for along time and it is just a beauty mark ,,, personally I think it looks grand …..
Being as hot as you are with that killer body I don’t think anyone is really going to give it much attention. It’s really not as big of a deal as you think.
Go out and enjoy yourself! Life is short. Seeing you having fun would impress my opinion of you, it's just a mole
SW-User
I don't think it'll be a problem - esp with all the friends there to support you. Might help you lose your self-consciousness about it
djjohnson · 41-45, M
Just relax! Attitude means more to most people. And those who do care about such things the most aren't worth the time anyway.
needsmilk808 · 56-60, M
😂 I have a large mole on my left cheek but I never think about it. Its all good, welcome to this crazy place.
Molehill that's funny :)

Hope you are enjoying it here.

And I hope you are taking the classes.
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Dance with confidence, smile and everyone will see a sexy woman with sensual body movements
Your tummy looks fine don't feel self conscious about it if you want to do the belly dancing then go for it
gdon39 · 46-50, M
Hehe...very punny. You’re probably making to much of it unless it looks like Donald trump Lol. Take the class💃
rfhh1959 · 61-69, M
I would say yes as most people do not think about you as much as you image
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mountainman1234 · 70-79, M
I think you are making to much out of it go have a good time and enjoy something new ,,,
Hii i wish we could be friends aha. That's a very sexy mole on your tummy 💓
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SW-User
If mole is small, then it still looks good. Size of mole matters.
romell · 51-55, M
what u may consider as a draw back may be your USP...just go for it..
Newaussiedad · 31-35, M
Get amongst it girl it's only a mole don't let it get to you.
plungesponge · 41-45, M
If it's a raised mole, try using some cider vinegar on it
MeisterAndrew · 41-45, M
Hi and welcome. You look beautiful with or without the mole.
Pleasingyou81 · 46-50, M
Do it. I’m sure you’ll love it and would be amazingly sexy doing it.
fetvoy12 · 51-55, M
Don't let a beauty mark get in the way of a good workout!! Dance away!

 
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