What would you do?

If your good friend is having a rough patch because they don't want to change their situation. How can you help someone when they don't want to help themselves. I call such people losers who know their problem, they know the solution but they only wana cry about it. I am so pissed, this happens every 6 months. My friend is not happy with the job but don't wana change it coz of the comfort zone.

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LucyFuhr · 56-60, F

I read a quote once that made a lot of sense..."People find it easier to cry, than to change."

People who look for the same "help" over and over, without ever taking it, aren't looking for help; they're looking for someone to commiserate with.

There's only so much attention I can give to that.

SW-User

@LucyFuhr exactly n now I am done..she always threatens to die