It seems to me you pick and choose whenever is convenient.
If it is God's plan why to you pray to change the outcome ?
And whenever you can't explain why the all seeing "loving" guy in the sky didn't intervene in saving a kid that was raped,tortured,or killed then you blame it on free will ( as if the helpless kid had any saying in
the matter)and forget you say everything is God's plan.
Speaking of which , this wise quote always comes to mind :