How to be a not clingy and attached person?! 😕🤔

@TheProphet omg really why?

@Cutiepi23 Always have.

He likes feeling needed, @Cutiepi23. That's all. Some guys feel safer that way.

@KayraJordyn yeah I thought so. Each to their own.

Indeed, @Cutiepi23. I feel a "need" for someone who dumped me. Things don't always make 100% sense. But this common desire does. A lot of men need to be needed to feel secure, and I totally get it. There are roles we've all played without thinking about it. I've always been independent, but now I miss some guy every day who left me. The guy who was once "all in". Is this natural for me? No. But it certainly is difficult to say goodbye to him.

I also want someone who needs me. Because I want to need him. And I think that's okay. I want to risk everything for love. It just has to be the right person. And I don't think my ex is that person, but a girl can hope, and hope for better when it doesn't work out.

Which it won't.

So something else must.

@KayraJordyn Things have a way of working out. Just dont put alk your eggs in one basket.

Seriously.