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Why do most guys only talk to girls?

Whenever I message one they get douchy and ignores you real fast especially the young ones,at least girls only ignore you 馃槀
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MrK00746-50, M
I'm guilty. Not trying to be an ass, but my heart is with the ladies.
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MrK00746-50, M
@moviefan545 I think there's an uncomfortable concern that the guy is looking for more than a pal. As a straight guy who not only isn't attrackted to men, but also is repulsed by the idea, we just don't want to take that chance. I'm speaking for myself, what other people desire is totally their business.
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MrK00746-50, M
@moviefan545 Guilty conscince, I guess. We know what we want, be it sexual or emotional when we pm a lady, so we must associate the two.
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MrK00746-50, M
@moviefan545 It's always, in some form sexual, I know that makes me sound like a pig, but honesty does that.
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MrK00746-50, M
@moviefan545 Sexual is not the right term, but with men and women, it almost always involves some emotional aspect.
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MrK00746-50, M
@moviefan545 Because our minds are in a place here, where it feels gay. lol
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@MrK007 @moviefan545 This whole conversation might not serve a purpose when you're on a site where 2/3 of the women you are talking to are probably dudes anyway. 馃槀
MrK00746-50, M
@SW-User That's addressed above.
DannyVD26-30, M
@SW-User fuuuuuuuuuuuuuuck xD xD xD
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MrK00746-50, M
@DannyVD I see the humor, but still enjoying the conversation.
DannyVD26-30, M
@moviefan545 some guys will never understand,dont bother 馃榿
MrK00746-50, M
@moviefan545 See one of my previous replies. There's nothing wrong with gay, unless it in any way, shape, or form involves those of us who are very much not into it.
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@MrK007 You've got some interesting thoughts. Unless I'm totally misinterpreting you're pretty much saying you can't have a conversation with a guy on here because you attach a sexual vibe to every conversation you have. I guess it's more a question of what you are here for. If the site to you is nothing more than a haven for flirting and sex...then yea it makes total sense to me why you'd want guys staying away.
MrK00746-50, M
@SW-User Sexual/emotional even if it's friendship. What you're actually reading is my half-hearted attempt to explain what others have noticed, having nothing to do with myself. Guys here don't reply to other guys often, fact. There's some reason and I'm doing my best to give a reasonable possibility.
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@MrK007 Well I think you're pretty spot on for the most part. There's a draw to the opposite gender. And like someone said below I doubt females talk to each other all that much more than the males do. They like that underlying vibe as much as we do.

But it's a damn shame if we really can't talk to each other because that vibe shows up like an elephant in the room and makes things all awkward. It's not like we're going to accidentally hold hands, lol.
MrK00746-50, M
@SW-User A reasonable and optimistic observation.