My friends want me to unblock her. Bad idea, right?

@Serenitree First one, and not online.

@GohantheThird oh, how long were you friends and how close were you before you mentioned the fact that you had a girlfriend. Did she think she was your girlfriend, perhaps?

@Serenitree We knew eachother for 3 weeks. That's it, and things escalated really quickly. Not gonna lie, I was terrified.

@GohantheThird best to just steer clear of her. Do you plan to tell your girlfriend?

@Serenitree I will have to eventually. I hung out with the crazy girl a few times, but honestly that was it. Better to be honest than lie to her out of embarassment.

@GohantheThird you know her best. But pick your time, and confess only the bare essentials, in case someone else might mention it. Do NOT ease your conscience by breaking her heart.

@Serenitree Not really a lot to tell, but I will def have to keep the timing in mind.

@GohantheThird may I suggest a time when things are calm and going well, but not when you're out having a great time? Alone, quiet, bring it up as a thing that you feel she should know, because you'd rather she hear it from you, than someone else. Tell her it didn't go far. Do NOT go into detail. That makes it sound like you are bragging and want her to think giving it up was a sacrifice on your part and you want her to be grateful. She won't be grateful. She won't be happy about it. She may get angry. You can tell her you understand her anger, or you can tell her she is overreacting, one could calm her, the other will drive her away.

@Serenitree I was gonna go with "stupid high school drama", but that works too

@GohantheThird I'm sorry. I tend to lecture. I should have had an advice to the lovelorn column in some schmaltzy romance magazine. 😏

@Serenitree I appreciate it nonetheless

@GohantheThird Good luck.