It has been a horrible day

Everything that can go wrong, has gone wrong. And if you've been following me with my problems with my contractor/ friends husband and the terrible job he's done, I just told him off. Yes through text. I've confronted him so many times and he comes up with excuses as to why things look the way they do. I've been taking more anxiety meds since this all started. I hate confrontation and Everytime I've seen him over the past 3 months I've had to confront him. So I'm done confronting him and texted him instead. Even doing that gets me very nervous and anxious. I'm literally still shaking.

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nonsensiclesnail · F

I hope that means that he’s fired.
This is a hard day, but this is a good thing!! I’m glad you found a way to stand your ground.

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melissa001 · 51-55, F

@nonsensiclesnail I told him I'd let him know how much another contract charges. But in fact I don't have one.

nonsensiclesnail · F

@melissa001 If you have a local builders association they should be able to point you in a good direction.

melissa001 · 51-55, F

@nonsensiclesnail don't have that. But I'll look around.

seaglass · F

Being constantly provoked like that is torture. I hope this will all end soon, so you can finally relax.

melissa001 · 51-55, F

@seaglass oh I really hope so too.

SJones48 · 41-45, M

Wow 😢

PhoenixPhail · M

I'm sorry. I'm out having dinner atm, but maybe we can check in with each other later. I care about you. 🫂

Nihiless

But at least you now won't be taken advantage of and have defended yourself. Now you have a choice to find a decent contractor and you can put this behind you and move on.