If nothing is wrong, is nothing right? If opposition exists, someone is getting outed. Is this nature?

Why don’t I understand society? Like I get how it works. I pay attention. I took extra Sociology in college I found it fascinating.

But I don’t understand how not conforming to standards is shameful. And if you don’t conform, people dgaf about you. Your voice is invalid. Who made these standards? Nature has its laws, I try to understand, but I can’t.

Why is superficial so attractive? Perfection? Ugh I don’t get it.