If someone turns out not to be the way you imagined and perceived them to be, isn't that your own fault?
Robot
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Pretty much. Romanticizing someone without getting to know or engaging them is not the target's fault really.
The alternative to this is someone pretending to be someone they're not and then later letting the mask slip. There's no real way to know they're a nut unless you observe them for a time to find out they're damaged in such a way. The only way you would then be at fault during this situation is if you choose to stay knowing this, because this is then a conscious decision at that point so you share a little of it now. I suppose.
The alternative to this is someone pretending to be someone they're not and then later letting the mask slip. There's no real way to know they're a nut unless you observe them for a time to find out they're damaged in such a way. The only way you would then be at fault during this situation is if you choose to stay knowing this, because this is then a conscious decision at that point so you share a little of it now. I suppose.
