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Tastyfrzz · 61-69, M
The Climax of Life


Thoughts That Never Happened
Dreams Never Dreamed
Life Never Lived
Feelings Never Felt
Sights Neither Seen Or Experienced
Bodies Never Touched
And Love Never Existing
Loneliness Was My Only Friend
Alienating Songs Filled My Heart And Soul
But Along You Came Like The Whisper Of Moonlight Upon The Soft Snows Of Imagination
You Led Me To Starry Paths Of Excitement And Pastures Of Beauty In The Universe
You Gave Me That Little Glimpse Of Life
That Little Glimpse Of Hope
That Little Understanding That This World Is Bigger Than What We See, But That Which We Can Feel And Experience
That Which Transcends The Spirit In All Of Us To Heights Where The Songs And Poems Of The Writers’ Minds’ And Hearts’ Are Respun In The Fabric Of Our Souls And We Have Peace.
We Have Love.

saintsong · 41-45, FVIP
God is Love!
1 Corinthians 13:4-8
New International Version
4 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.

8 Love never fails. Live in Love for God!!! First and foremost, and live by faith!! And be good!! It's a healthy start to living a Heavenly life daily!!! Then love your neighbor like you love yourself! Don't beat yourself up when you love others!! Because you are the temple of the Holy Spirit and it's not healthy to beat your temple up!!!

Read The Song of Solomon, and the beginning of the book of Hosea in the Bible in the end it doesn't end well, true love is as unyielding as the grave or sheol which is hell on earth, demonic attacks... Of course satan would attack our truest love that's why it is called idolatry to love man above God!! Those two books sum up a large portion of secular music that you hear on the radio, most encourage it, not mentioning that it drove them insane and that they sold their souls for practically stalking their lover!!! Vying for love by being nice! Don't go there! Now you know!!!

There are 5 love languages

Words of Affirmation - Saying supportive things to your partner

Acts of Service - Doing helpful things for your partner

Receiving Gifts - Giving your partner gifts that tell them you were thinking about them

Quality Time - Spending meaningful time with your partner

Physical Touch - Being close to and caressed by your partner

1. Eros: sexual desire
In Ancient Greek mythology, Eros (ἔρως) was a mischievous god of passion and fertility, who was shooting arrows into the hearts of people and immortals and making them feel a sudden overwhelming desire for each other. Although this desire can be interpreted as love, it is primarily physical attraction. That’s where the terms “erotic” and “erotica” came from that nowadays describe human sexuality.

It is common to mistake lust – or sexual desire – for romantic love. Sexual attraction can be a potent and overwhelming sensation, and even fool the brain into questionable decision-making. However, although the sexual desire is not a type of love in and of itself, it is frequently an essential component of love, especially between romantic couples.

2. Philia: soul connection
In contrast to the physical, sexual nature of Eros, Philia (φιλία) is a platonic feeling. This Greek word for love implies spiritual connection, trust, and sharing of the same values. Philia usually grows between friends or family members. While it is not as overwhelming, euphoric, or exciting as Eros, it is often more fulfilling and rewarding in the long term.

Philia is not relegated to non-sexual and non-romantic relationships, however. It is a vital component of romantic love between couples, and any connection without it is not likely to last. A love that features Eros but not Philia is often a possessive, self-centered love. Ancient Greek philosophers (as well as many psychologists today) believed that the two work best alongside each other, strengthening each other and the bond between two people. Adding Philia to Eros turns a possessive love into one built around shared goals and happiness. The Greek philosopher Plato believed that the combination of Philia and Eros led to the highest form of love – a “friendship between lovers.”

3. Storge: devoted love
Storge (στοργή) can be classified as a variation of Philia and usually relates to love within a family. While the care and devotion of Storge is an integral part of Philia’s connection, it may also be one-sided. An excellent example of Storge is when a parent cares for a child, makes them feel secure, comfortable, and safe, and don’t expect anything in return.

Although Storge may seem like an antidote of Eros, they both tend to be highly natural, biological, and instinctual. Storge usually occurs between married couples who are raising a family together. This form of love is valued in Western culture, particularly within the Christian faith.

4. Pragma: mature love
Although probably the least exciting type of love, Pragma (πράγμα) is an essential component of making relationships work in the long term. Pragma is love based on duty, reason, and shared goals. Like Philia, Pragma is not limited to romantic partnerships, although it is a vital part of romantic love. It is essential within families and even close friendships. Examples of Pragma manifestation are personal sacrifices for your partner’s benefit, making life and career choices that are best for your relationship rather than just yourself, and carrying out the daily chores and tasks needed to maintain a happy home.

Pragma love is perhaps the most difficult to develop and maintain, as it requires continual effort, dedication, and often selflessness. However, the results are often extremely worthwhile in the long-term. Even arranged marriages have been sustained and made satisfying through Pragma, and many failing relationships have been saved. This type of love can be seen as the day-to-day “admin” of maintaining a relationship, but partnerships without Pragma are unlikely to withstand the challenges of time.

5. Ludus: playful love
Ludus (Παιχνίδια) is another Greek word for love that is perhaps the polar opposite of Pragma. While Pragma is long-term, cerebral, and based around responsibilities, Ludus is carefree and playful love.

Imagine a hedonistic casual relationship that is focused on fun and living in the moment, and you’ll have an excellent example of Ludus. It is often expressed through flirting and teasing, seduction, and casual sex. Although the thrill of sexual conquest is a form of Ludus, these relationships are not necessarily selfish or shallow – they may be fulfilling to both parties if mutual respect is shown, and come with less responsibility and commitment than other kinds of love.

Ludus shares many qualities with Eros, but it is not limited to physical or sexual relationships. Ludus love can also comprise non-sexual activities such as dancing, drinking, and other sensory pleasures that one can enjoy.

6. Mania: obsessive love
Have you ever met anybody obsessed with a particular individual to the point where it seems unhealthy? And maybe you even called them a maniac? Greek philosophers labeled this type of love as Mania (μανία).

It can be combined with sexual and hedonistic Eros and Ludus but will hardly accompany Pragma or Philia. Mania often manifests through anxiety, emotional instability, jealousy, and possessiveness.

These days “mania,” and its derivation “manic” are used in the field of psychiatry to describe components of certain mental illnesses, as well as being used in less formal settings to define hyper obsession or fixation. Even though a slight obsession can be fairly common during the early stages of a relationship, in the long term, excess of Mania that is unbalanced by other forms of love can lead to dependency and even stalking or violence.

7. Meraki (modern greek): creative endeavors
A modern Greek word, derived from the Turkish “Merak” (μεράκι) means to do something with love, creativity, and devotion when you wholeheartedly put yourself into what you are doing.

Meraki is often used to describe creative or artistic expressions such as painting, singing, or composing music. Also, it can manifest in cooking, decorating a room, or nicely setting up a table.

You do not have to paint a gorgeous portrait of your partner or compose a stunning piece of music for them to express your love. Making a nice dinner is a perfect manifestation of Meraki!

8. Philautia: self-love
The Greek philosopher Aristotle believed that self-love or Philautia (φιλαυτία) is a prerequisite to loving others. Healthy self-love is beneficial to every aspect of life, including relationships, and individuals who love themselves are usually more capable of both giving and receiving all kinds of love.

Many destructive behaviors in a relationship can often be rooted in a lack of self-love. However, self-love can quickly turn into an unhealthy form when a person loves themselves more than anyone else. Unhealthy self-love can be expressed through an inflated ego and usually dependent on social status, abilities, or accomplishments rather than genuine virtues.

Healthy self-love is defined by self-esteem that is not dependent on status or competition with others. Instead, it is based more on forgiveness and acceptance of the self.

People with a healthy level of self-love are not arrogant and do not hold themselves superior to others, but are resilient and accepting of their limitations without feeling ashamed of them. These people are less likely to seek external validation through compulsive behaviors, and as a result, can devote themselves better to relationships.

9. Agape: unconditional love
Agape (ἀγάπη) is an unconditional love that is not dependent on any external factors. Acts of charity and altruism are often born out of Agape love. It seems fair to argue that a society without Agape would be unable to function, as we are dependent on one another as a species.

Agape is the least selfish form of love and does not require anything in return. However, it does also often result in immense benefits to the one practicing it – not just in terms of people reciprocating it with love or rewards, but benefits for the mental and emotional well-being of the practitioner. Practicing Agape love can often increase self-love, and higher levels of healthy self-love usually result in an increased ability to feel and show Agape – it is a cycle!

Greek is one of the richest languages in the world with an extensive vocabulary. However, love is often more complicated than any words can describe.

Although Greek philosophers attempted to classify different types of love, in reality, its forms and manifestations tend to blur and blend in various combinations. Thankfully, there are many ways that you can nurture and cultivate these, leading to happier and healthier connections and a more fulfilling life.

Knowing Greek words for love and recognizing different types of love may help you improve yourself and your relationship. And I am sure your partner will appreciate that cup of tea that you prepare with Meraki.

In the ocean of love, every emotion is unique. As Greek philosophers have discussed, love has many forms, but it can always warm our hearts in thousands of ways. How to maintain this love? We can use a unique heart to integrate this philosophy of love into our daily lives - through carefully designed custom enamel pins, let love be carried with you and felt at any time.

These pins can be printed with a declaration of love between you or a sweet photo of you. Imagine giving your beloved partner a customized pin full of beautiful memories in the early morning when the morning sun shines brightly. This is not just an accessory, but also a declaration of love, a testimony to the unique emotions between you and your lover.

♥Oh and love is getting things right for all who are concerned, considering your own significant other, and how another couple would feel if you had a crush on one of their significant others... Getting it right from within is to respect their relationship too in the sight of God, fighting for a better world, thus a great resolution when you find no peace... God Himself may tell you that you really love people and to be good... No secrets between your secret places in your heart and mind between you and God, because sooner or later it will come to light for all to see... And wouldn't you want those bounderies respected??? For everyone involved? As for me I do!! That's why I love Gods will better than my own desires! I simply Love God more!!! And that's how I started hearing the Angels singing!!!!
AzAZ09223 · 26-30, M
Has gotten researched a bunch and still has green grass ahead. 👑 💜❤ 💎 😁 😭 😂 🥂 😨 I saw and was on extraterrestrials presence. I done very dangerous acts like standing on top of and old elevator shaft cap purposely to get smarter and stop aging and I would pick this one as the best. Also when we can't debunk out that we are all alive it counts. I want a sexual relationship with one of you non related to me women. Heterosexual sex. What I discovered about gambling and dating 100 hrs 50 mins ago. I discovered that winning one out of 30 50/50 gambles is and unlimited amount of 50/50 wins on the first try because it fluctuates from top to bottom very fast in an unlimited amount of 50/50 gambles 100 hrs 50 mins ago. I got these two glass bottles with the caps on normally tight and then I got my gloves and shuffled the like 4in tall bottles up with them on in my hands to the bed around and around I sat one down at a time bottles not touching till I lost where they were at and then I won it on the first try for the first try for the first time this way to get the upper advantage point over everything except good people and they can't hurt me randomly 100 hrs 45 mins ago. I am 27 yrs old. I wrote down what I did and the details with pen and paper 65 hrs ago. I cleaned the bottles off before playing with them and I shuffled them up for like 3 minutes. 1st 50/50 try was the most important to stop aging for us all. I used all my heart. People or a person started off with believing that just one coin flip was 50/50 or that two guys one girl one guy gets there first was 50/50 and they didn't keep mine blocked out.
CurrentName · 51-55, M
@AzAZ09223
Or like this fellow says.. having sex with a woman not related to me.. that can work.
GoFish ·
real love is the most powerful beautiful thing in the universe

there's a lot of frauds and counterfeits tho 😒
CurrentName · 51-55, M
Love is when making someone else happy, means more than making yourself happy.
H1raeth · 41-45, M
Strictmichael75 · 61-69, M
Love is about caring, wanting to please the ilother person, making concessions, making efforts.

Being happy with that person and sharing the good and the bad
IsawDDevil · 36-40, M
love is thinking about your someone, feeling good being around them, You'll think of them as if they were being admired. It just feels good.
Younameit · F
@Elessar is single and ready to mingle
twistedrope · 26-30, M
Love is hanging out, playing about, trying not to rip each other apart during trying times and not cheat on each other.

Love is tough. But its good.
Aquaabyss · New
Foreigner knows
th3r0n · 41-45, M
Romance and love aren't the same thing

Romance is infatuation, love is dedication

Love is fine without romance, romance sucks without love
NewWorldToronto · 51-55, M
Wow....there is a lot to this question.....let me come back to it.
fenomen02 · 46-50, M
nobody will ever tell you what is love for you! you must discover it!!!!
Love Actually is a beloved 2003 Christmas-themed romantic comedy film directed by Richard Curtis.
It explores the complexities of human connection through ten interwoven storylines that take place during the weeks leading up to Christmas in London. _ Courtesy :- Wiki.
Nobody ever really wants that knowledge. You'll have to learn it the hard way.
Renkon · M
When you like a flower, you just pluck it. But when you love a flower, you water it daily.

That's Love in a nutshell.
eyeno · M
Love is acting like you understand what she's talking about.

Ferric67 · M
I don't see this as a knowledge acquisition thing
Love is inherent within someone....you can't simply build it, although it can develop....but not through forced means
candycane · 36-40, F
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