Is an extra degree worth the cost?

@BreakfastGirl It sounds like you know what you want already.C cup is okay but going up to say DD will look fantastic especially if you want to go topless or sunbathe naked on a beach.You already have a degree so best to go in a different direction and get augmentation.You will need a reputable surgeon you can trust.They should be able to bring in a woman that has had augmentation done by them so you can see and feel what breasts with implants are like.It will hurt for a long time after surgery but once everything has settled you will really fill out a skimpy bikini.

@BreakfastGirl Personally very different metrics are becoming very obvious as far as evaluating a potential romantic partner on my part I keep hearing men are attracted to beauty and women to success but it's too vast of an over simplification like Beauty is nice to look at but to rely on it is a fools errand and if you want to be miserable as a man just marry a pretty woman who doesn't deserve to be pretty and if there were a just god would have beaten with an ugly stick but somehow he failed to do the right thing.
I get scolded and talked back to on here sometimes and it's like you must think you're talking to literally any other man because personally I love myself far too much to even pine for the affections of someone who treated me like I was out of their league and they were too good for me.

IF people really knew why I fell for Lyssa in the first place they'd maximize for other traits.

Kind, more merciful than even me, talks me down from my worst instincts when people hurt me, strategic, careful measured, Intelligent, extremely empathetic and the beauty I tend to hoard the most as far as those I keep closest to me is not outer but Inner.

It's why the shape of my actual struggles with the opposite sex look like they do like having ended up with the Spineless one who's real intent was not to hurt anyone so strongly she ended up hurting EVERYONE because unfortunately that's how things go with monogamy, when there can only be one winner.

Funny how I swung after that to a Polyamorous partner, I think part of me kind of knew if i could tell her I would have said hey it's not me that is trying to force a choice on you, I don't care so long as you actually like me.

But things happened and we are where we are now, Lyssa is pretty but honestly it was every other fact about her that did this to me.

@BreakfastGirl C cups are pretty damn sexy as is!

I think you just need someone that can help you love what you got, other wise you might upgrade, and still feel left out and not loving what you got, despite the upgrade

@BreakfastGirl PhDD?

@Northwest While I'm at it, shall I go for a PhBimbo?
Accredited by Pamela Anderson herself?

@BreakfastGirl You are free to do whatever you please.

@SW-User Not fake.
It may sound weird how I worded it , but the struggle is real.
I can only spend money on one of these and both have been on my mind for the last two years.

@Budwick It's in my head for sure.
I feel bad that my initial Ph.D was from an average university and not from a top notch university. I don't know how much it still matters because I'm very recognized in my field nowadays. It's just this annoying feeling of wanting to make up for it by going for a 2nd Ph.D. I just feel so shallow for it.
My heart wants it but my mind says '' £10k for a piece of paper and tons of your previous time. Don't you have better things to do and better things to spend your money at? " .
It feels like a luxury problem but a tough one.

@BreakfastGirl
I'm sure you will make the right decision to ensure that you get the recognition you desire.

@mysteryespresso With the whole Ukraine situation investing in shares is a bit risky now but I may invest afterwards perhaps.

@BreakfastGirl healthcare consultant is like a therapist you can guide you what to eat, how to lead a healthy lifestyle?

@mysteryespresso Basically I assess the mental and physical health profile of an individual and assess what risk factors they need to mitigate. I also assess the societal reasons for certain diseases ( drug addiction for example ).
I help healthcare providers to be more aware of the early signs of certain diseases in patient populations and propose prevention plans.

Right now I'm working with stage IV cancer patients and I am on the board who advises on what criteria to use to continue or stop treatment.

A very varied job actually :-)

@BreakfastGirl can you give free advise or you charge money?

i got duodenal ulcer and workplace stress only makes it worse. How to mitigate the risk and get healthier?