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Do you avoid things you don't understand or that offend you?

Lately I've noticed that I have a fascination with wanting to learn about topics or things that I either don't agree with or that offend me.
Whether it's through reading a book on said topic or listening to a podcast. I just want to learn why I react that way towards it and I also want to learn why I have the opinion I have.

Just wondering how many other people feel this way too.
Because, I already know a ton of people who would never do such a thing for fear of possibly being wrong.
Boleuskas · M Best Comment
I try to have an open mind, and learn about things I find strange or offensive, it is not an easy thing to overcome barriers in your mind
2Wheels · 31-35, F
@Boleuskas That's great! No, it's definitely not easy.
Boleuskas · M
@2Wheels tx for best comment 🙂
2Wheels · 31-35, F
@Boleuskas You're welcome! 🙂

Magenta · F
I do the opposite of avoid, I research it. Understanding something is highly important to me.

Of course there may be a few subjects I would avoid.
2Wheels · 31-35, F
@Magenta Sweet! That's fair.
SW-User
Not at all.
I go search for it, and if I am invested enough, I read voraciously through it until I understand it.
2Wheels · 31-35, F
@SW-User Awesome!
SW-User
@2Wheels You too.
Convivial · 26-30, F
Lack of knowledge or ignorance is often the basis of lack of understanding... We can never really experience what someone else experiences... But we can read and learn and gain acceptance... Good job on your part!
2Wheels · 31-35, F
@Convivial Yes, you're right. In some situations you can never fully understand something, but the fact you at least try and also keep an open mind is huge.
Thank you!
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
I know exactly why I react that way and the reason is complete helplessness in the matter, the fact that it's shitty and I can't do anything about it.
i like to read and try and understand. But never doing myself. A lot of people dont agree with my life
2Wheels · 31-35, F
@nevergiveup The fact you do what makes sense to you and not what others say is best, is awesome.
DrSunnyTheSkeptic · 26-30, M
I've been avoiding math all my life, I devoted my life to not doing or learning anything math related.
2Wheels · 31-35, F
@DrSunnyTheSkeptic 🤣🤣 Fair enough. I'm with you there.
Funkyfreakshow · 26-30, M
Quite the opposite, I try to tackle stuff like that head on to understand others view points
2Wheels · 31-35, F
@Funkyfreakshow Awesome! I like to hear that.
samueltyler2 · 80-89, M
That is intellectual curiosity. I agree, i do the same v
what you are talking about can only refer to the human.

understand what human beings are. after that, you won't need to understand anything else.
What I try to avoid (nowadays) is getting into debates about things that offend me or (especially) that I don’t understand. I try to see if I can find some understanding of the latter. Sometimes I can understand the perspective that supports it—but still disagree.
2Wheels · 31-35, F
@bijouxbroussard Having a confrontational conversation with someone is a completely different topic. 😄 I'm just referring to anything in life apart from conversations.
I agree though. You're best to just walk away. I don't like confrontation either. Not worth the energy imo.
Jungleman · M
i tend to yes, i don't have much tolerance of people as it is.
I avoid what i must.

 
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