Do you find other people attractive/cute/hot other than your partner?

No, and in 39 years I never have. Decades ago, when I had female friends,they used to tease me about the fact I didn't check good looking people out. I only have eyes for my Honey,and no one is better than him,in any way,to me.So,why even look?

I know when someone is aesthetically pleasing. But I don't love those people.

Well, duh. Last I checked, I'm still human.

Of course. I have no intention of doing anything about it, though...

of course they're unless you talk to them

Yeah. I mean we have a planet full of attractive people. I'm not going to stop being attracted to women because I'm in a relationship. The difference is I know how to leave it at that and be loyal to who I'm with. If that ever came into question then conversations need to be had and decisions made.

Never.

You can't or shouldn't, control who you find attractive ...

That’s just human nature. But we all choose what to do about those feelings.

Yes. And he knows it because I tell him.

Doesn't everyone?

I have, when I was partnered. But finding someone attractive is [b]not[/b] the same as acting upon it.

Yes, all the time.

Of course.

I don't have a partner right now, but yes.

Sure. I can appreciate others attractive qualities. They could be physical or otherwise. I just appreciate the traits my husband has at a unique level unlike my appreciation for others