Do i have the right to defend myself

Do i have the right to defend myself against my mum if shes being violent and hitting me i defended myself against my mum when she was drunk and violent before i just pushed her and another time i tried to phone the police and she took my phone and smashed it she even attacked me so i put my hand on her throat i feel ashamed of my actions this was year's ago we are both in much better places now

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WhisperinAngelic101 · F

Get a bunch of friends, and listen to their advice. Your mum belongs to the older generation, so keep in mind that those folks often don't get the kids thinking. But at the same time, remember your Parents, are God's gift to you, and if you try and see God's purpose for you in this difficult time, and align your thoughts and actions with that purpose, you will come out shining.

And, you will eventually get the reward for being wise. Your mum is affected/victimized by the cares of the world, which no one is immune to, and frankly, who doesn't fall prey to the evil in the world? It's up to you to be the Wise one, be the mature one, and get the best out of situations like this in life, which sometimes lead nowhere. Remember that we all have a calling, a higher purpose in our creator, and when we align ourselves and thinking with his purpose, the world starts to make sense.

melissa001 · 51-55, F

If you are in your late 20s can't you just walk out when she starts it?

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WhisperinAngelic101 · F

@Bify123 You probably have a good reason, to stick with your mum, in spite of that. But hey, you need to think deeply about your situation, and the vibes it is giving you. Accordingly, think about why you think things like this happen, and align your thoughts, and actions with that higher purpose. Sometimes thinking that God is in control helps. And get some friends, who will vouch for you mentally, verbally, and perhaps even physically?

Dethmoore · 31-35, M

@Bify123 the title in question is being asked in present tense. Your best move is to move out on your own. No more police calling, phone smashing, and throat grabbing. If you must live under her roof, do your best to avoid conflicts and walk away when you can.

Bify123 · 26-30, M

@Dethmoore lol you really want to argue with me about when it was

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