In your ENTIRE history of havin' Calmed Down. Ever achieved it by bein' told to do so? 🤔 Tell...

A pet peeve of mine is being told what I'm going to do.
Like oh really?! You know what I'm going to do? lol

One thing that my ex would piss me off when he said...stop overreacting and calm down...

😒 that's going to escalate quickly

Convivial · 26-30, F

The worst thing you can tell anyone who is genuinely upset is to claim down

Spumoni · 46-50, M

It's just fuel to the fire

SweetMae · 70-79, F

It might have worked once or twice. 🤭

Helloeveryone · 61-69, F

like dang chill already...

Ontheroad · M

So, just to be sure I understand this fully - saying "if you could just stop with the hissy fit, we can talk calmly" is not a good thing to say?

SW-User

Gas, meet fire…fire meet gas

SW-User

Take a deep breath

Fullmetal · 46-50, M

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Here you go!

Gawd, yes…have those two words ever made anyone calmer ? 😅