My friends told me i cant vent to them no more, im too negative, and i should treat them like friends not therapists :( I do treat them like friends..

I see both sides in this argument, its nice to vent sometimes but if ur always doing it with friends you can become a bit of a drag on them. Friends just want fun they don't want drama or problems. That doesn't mean u are in the wrong for coming to them with your problems. it just means from time to time it would be nice for them if u came to have fun and relax. This place is good for venting so maybe do half of it here and a little with them from time to time. 😇

but they do not reciprocate.
let reciprocity be your guide, as they treat you, so treat them.
SOME will have an open ear

Do you listen to them? Are you there for them?

This happened to me a lot too. Especially made worse because my therapists have never been good

Well you can definitely vent to me

I treat sw like therapy lol. Maybe work on your complaints to make them interesting. I swear my oldest sister is fun to listen to, cause her complaints are hilarious. Then again she works with stupid customers all day at a restaurant