How many is to many msgs

So recently i got in trouble for send 3 msgs to a girl. i was called overbearing and overwhelming. basically a pest. would it not be cool to say. hey im busy or something. in stead of ignoring. but hey i was just thinking. and does anyone like delete a person if they dont respond after some time ??

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ASLAN · 31-35, M

Move on buddy.. it's not worth it.

496sbc · 36-40, M

@ASLAN yeah. i know

AngelUnforgiven · 51-55, F

It depends on the situation. You have to read the room. If she's not into you it can come off as annoying or creepy even. It depends on how close you two are.

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496sbc · 36-40, M

@AngelUnforgiven tnx you i appreciate u

AngelUnforgiven · 51-55, F

@496sbc 🫂💙

496sbc · 36-40, M

@AngelUnforgiven wow ur the first to give a hug. ❤

ScreamingFox · 41-45, F

Some people are not good communicators. Sometimes it's fear. I told a guy I didn't want to date him and he showed up at my house with guns. Maybe she didn't like/want the attention and is too stuck up to be honest with you.

Point is, who knows. Obviously that's not something you would do to someone, so you already don't really connect, so let it go. Leave her be. Talk to people that treat you in a way that feels respectful.

OogieBoogie · F

People are losing the cojones to say anything negative coz people are losing their ability to cope with anything negative.

There are now even more unspoken rules to communication.

Still....if someone doesnt respond by the time you expect them too ....serenely accept it.

Pushing people doesnt work anyway you look at it🤷‍♀

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496sbc · 36-40, M

@OogieBoogie maybe idk. but u get what i mean right

OogieBoogie · F

@496sbc 🤔.... not really.
If people dont get back to me i let it go.
I try to accept shit as it happens as we never know what's going on, (or gone on in their past), with people.

She coulda been in an accident, had a family member die, gotten sick, had to work, been harassed by an ex before...ANY number of stressful things.

We dont know this stuff.
Life is chaotic
People are chaotic

496sbc · 36-40, M

@OogieBoogie maybe all that's possible but ohh well tnx for ur help

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