How many is to many msgs

So recently i got in trouble for send 3 msgs to a girl. i was called overbearing and overwhelming. basically a pest. would it not be cool to say. hey im busy or something. in stead of ignoring. but hey i was just thinking. and does anyone like delete a person if they dont respond after some time ??

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OogieBoogie · F

People are losing the cojones to say anything negative coz people are losing their ability to cope with anything negative.

There are now even more unspoken rules to communication.

Still....if someone doesnt respond by the time you expect them too ....serenely accept it.

Pushing people doesnt work anyway you look at it🤷‍♀

496sbc · 36-40, M

@OogieBoogie ik thats why i only left her a few msgs. and honestly all they had to say is im to busy but to just look at them and no reply. yeah. i know when im not wanted

OogieBoogie · F

@496sbc Well no ..."im busy" implies that they'll eventually get back to you ....and then you end up in the same place dont you?

496sbc · 36-40, M

@OogieBoogie maybe idk. but u get what i mean right

OogieBoogie · F

@496sbc 🤔.... not really.
If people dont get back to me i let it go.
I try to accept shit as it happens as we never know what's going on, (or gone on in their past), with people.

She coulda been in an accident, had a family member die, gotten sick, had to work, been harassed by an ex before...ANY number of stressful things.

We dont know this stuff.
Life is chaotic
People are chaotic

496sbc · 36-40, M

@OogieBoogie maybe all that's possible but ohh well tnx for ur help