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People complaining about other people complaining is so annoying

You’re annoyed by other people being in pain. We get it. I wish they’d get over it. And when you give them solutions (like blocking the people venting) they always have some reason not to. 😏
itsok · 31-35, F
You have my permission to make a post about people complaining about people complaining about people complaining.
LilPrincess · 41-45, F
You silly goose if they block they won't have anything to complain about 🙄
itsok · 31-35, F
@LilPrincess *takes my silly goose self back to the pond*
Miram · 31-35, F
Some think by naming someone else a particular word , it absolves them from being that word.

They want the world to only reflect positivity otherwise it is not of value.

There is value even in exploring our darkness. That's how one's resolve is sharpened. Every single trait in human evolution can serve a function. Even suicidal thoughts, if for nothing else they are our humanity longing for meanings and an answer to suffering. They a part of who we are as species, our growth, our betterment if we wish them to. As we reach out to each other and form a whole from divided spirits and restless minds finding little peace in unity.

Criticisms towards venting sometimes are an indication of one's inability to manage their own inner conflicts. Lack of conviction seeks out validation. Inferiority complexes riddled with helplessness translate to superiority complexes.

So it really is just us trying to prove ourselves worthy to ourselves. Here words count, it is easy. Offline actions speak for us.
Degbeme · 70-79, MVIP
Justmeraeagain · 51-55, F
@Degbeme @itsok But your both in the same room at the same time! 😩
itsok · 31-35, F
@Justmeraeagain i don’t know exactly how it works, but I have proof
WaryWitchWandering · 31-35, F
Yeah hah

we are all complaining about the people complaining about the people complaining… about complaining

Humans suck sometimes
Pfuzylogic · M
They suck if we get lucky! 😗
This is all too familiar to me
itsok · 31-35, F
@MsSwann are you starting to feel dizzy yet?
@itsok [image deleted]
Wait a minute 🤔

Hey !😄
Justmeraeagain · 51-55, F
I can see both sides sometimes ,but really this is a place where people can complain if they feel like it ,they can vent if they feel like it, if they want to say how miserable they are they are entitled to do so .
What they're not entitled is that everybody is to listen to them and that is of course true on any of the subjects talked about here.
@Justmeraeagain I can understand complaining, but to call people losers isn't right.
Justmeraeagain · 51-55, F
@MsSwann that's never my style to call somebody a loser ,people have psychological problems.
I think the people who pick on people who have psychological problems probably have some of their own.

I really don't understand a lot of people here or why they will get so uptight about things that are none of their business ?why can't they just ignore it if they don't like it? why do they have to go off and call people names?

There have been people out here however who have lied to play with other people's heads ... they had cancer or some other stupid thing that wasn't even true... I guess that's the only ones I would get upset with.
if you're hurting... you're hurting, I'm not going to make it worse by calling somebody a name.
I don't mind when people complain in general but it can be stressful if they complain a lot or for a long time.
Because they like the drama?
itsok · 31-35, F
@Fragmented they like attention from drama. Which.. is another thing they tend to complain about when people vent. Attention seeking. Hm.
iamonfire696 · 36-40, F
Thank you for making this post because exactly.

Those complainers are so judgemental. I just want to say just STFU already 😬🙃
iamonfire696 · 36-40, F
@itsok I completely agree. Some of the people on the post today make me feel sick because they are constantly rude to people who are struggling and looking down on people for being weak.

Like reaching out for help, sharing struggles, wanting to connect and just feel some support is such an awful thing to want.

It’s human nature to want to connect to people and unfortunately some of us don’t have people in our offline lives that care or can support us.

I will happily be an ear for someone if they need help because I have been shown the same support here.

I read through the comments and I was just disgusted. I don’t care what people think of me but I am struggling a lot right now and I appreciate the people here.
itsok · 31-35, F
@iamonfire696 and the people laughing at it..? The only conclusion that makes sense is they’ve never been in a similar place, with unbearable, long-term pain. They must just not be able to fathom the kind of pain people are in.
I am sorry about the pain you’re in 🤗 and I’m glad you can find support here
iamonfire696 · 36-40, F
@itsok it must be really nice for them that they have never been in chronic pain or emotional despair but that’s not the case for many people.

I hope that you have found some comfort here as well because people do care about you. I know I do 💗.

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