People complaining about other people complaining is so annoying

You’re annoyed by other people being in pain. We get it. I wish they’d get over it. And when you give them solutions (like blocking the people venting) they always have some reason not to. 😏

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Miram · 31-35, F

Some think by naming someone else a particular word , it absolves them from being that word.

They want the world to only reflect positivity otherwise it is not of value.

There is value even in exploring our darkness. That's how one's resolve is sharpened. Every single trait in human evolution can serve a function. Even suicidal thoughts, if for nothing else they are our humanity longing for meanings and an answer to suffering. They a part of who we are as species, our growth, our betterment if we wish them to. As we reach out to each other and form a whole from divided spirits and restless minds finding little peace in unity.

Criticisms towards venting sometimes are an indication of one's inability to manage their own inner conflicts. Lack of conviction seeks out validation. Inferiority complexes riddled with helplessness translate to superiority complexes.

So it really is just us trying to prove ourselves worthy to ourselves. Here words count, it is easy. Offline actions speak for us.