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People complaining about other people complaining is so annoying

You’re annoyed by other people being in pain. We get it. I wish they’d get over it. And when you give them solutions (like blocking the people venting) they always have some reason not to. 😏
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iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
Thank you for making this post because exactly.

Those complainers are so judgemental. I just want to say just STFU already 😬🙃
itsok · 31-35, F
@iamonfire696 it’s just.. every point they try to make against people venting can be said about them.
They’re venting by saying they hate venters. They’re complaining about people complaining. They’re whining about whiners. They’re attention seeking while hating on attention seekers.
They say the people they’re talking about won’t take steps toward helping themselves, yet they’re the ones unable to see how much other people in pain upsets them, and they won’t block them.
And they still don’t see it as the same thing.
But the worst part is they’re showing their gross lack of compassion.
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@itsok I completely agree. Some of the people on the post today make me feel sick because they are constantly rude to people who are struggling and looking down on people for being weak.

Like reaching out for help, sharing struggles, wanting to connect and just feel some support is such an awful thing to want.

It’s human nature to want to connect to people and unfortunately some of us don’t have people in our offline lives that care or can support us.

I will happily be an ear for someone if they need help because I have been shown the same support here.

I read through the comments and I was just disgusted. I don’t care what people think of me but I am struggling a lot right now and I appreciate the people here.
itsok · 31-35, F
@iamonfire696 and the people laughing at it..? The only conclusion that makes sense is they’ve never been in a similar place, with unbearable, long-term pain. They must just not be able to fathom the kind of pain people are in.
I am sorry about the pain you’re in 🤗 and I’m glad you can find support here
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@itsok it must be really nice for them that they have never been in chronic pain or emotional despair but that’s not the case for many people.

I hope that you have found some comfort here as well because people do care about you. I know I do 💗.