So was just diagnosed with a tumor in my throat

Idk what to do. Life just became worse for me. I started having throat problems about 2 months ago and ended up losing my voice several times. I finally got checked and was diagnosed with a tumor in my larynx. Idk where to even start. Do I just give up? Idk. have been crying all day but I guess there is no use in shedding anymore tears. so much for working on an album this year. I honestly thought this was gonna be my year. God I feel so stupid for trying to be positive and telling myself that things were somehow gonna magically get better.

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calicuz · 51-55, M

Start by getting a second opinion, and go from there.

alainc2490 · 31-35, M

@calicuz I have. Even a 3rd opinion just to make sure I wasn't overreacting.

calicuz · 51-55, M

@alainc2490

Then you have begun your journey. Life throws the hardest troubles to the strongest people. Right now you should just focus on following all your doctor's orders and advice. If you have support through family and friends, begin to get them involved, you're going to need them to help you make decisions. I know you're scared, and that's natural. It's also natural to feel like life is over, but it's not. Take some time to process everything and then get started.
God's speed my friend, and good luck. Keep us posted if you'd like and if you have time.

alainc2490 · 31-35, M

@calicuz I don't have family or friends. I am currently estranged from my family because they kicked me out when I was 15 and have been on my own ever since. Basically working and surviving up until now.

calicuz · 51-55, M

@alainc2490

Well, choose a good hospital for your treatment and there should be support groups there, especially for people like yourself who have no family.