I'm sorry but it really needs to considered that not everyone has support.

I need one more person telling me to just ask my dead Mom for help like I'm 23, like I need more problems.

I'm not fecking complaining. I'm not looking for attention or props. I'm telling you my family is dead and I'm responsible for my child so I can't do what everyone else does and all my problems are solved.

Gods if I felt sorry for myself like people think I do I'd never of made it this far.

If I could fix everything, duh, I would.

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ManOfSteel · M

I completely understand because I'm in the exact same boat. My adoptive father passed away a while ago, and my adoptive mother has never been part of my life, so it honestly gets frustrating when people automatically assume I have or had parents to lean on for help with my kids or anything else. You're not complaining, you're explaining a reality that a lot of people who've always had that support simply can't relate to, and I really hope things get easier for you.

EldritchFox · 41-45, F

@ManOfSteel I'm sorry you know the feeling. It is endlessly insulting to be treated like we need to do more when we're doing everything. You are right, we're just trying to explain our reality. People should listen without judgement.

Thank you. It's not going to get better we just get stronger.

Livingwell · 61-69, M

You need some stress relief to blow off steam. 🤗

0uijaFinger

Youre one of the strongest women I know and Im glad you have here to vent. People need to understand we only see a snapshot of each others lives. Not everything.

(Im sleepy, so hope I got the gist right)

EldritchFox · 41-45, F

@0uijaFinger I agree. And that's kinda the beauty of this place. Little taste of everything. Sometimes way too much of the saggy balls 😂 but yeah I hear you and thank you. All I'm trying to do is make it like everyone else is.

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