What do i do?
My grandfather was diagnosed with a bad cancer , it is already kinda spread .my mother is crying and feeling hopeless , what do i do to make her just a little better ? Im feeling so weak right now .
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What I found to be helpful was when those around me could keep life as normal as possible.
No screaming at me to "Just cry already" or "Get a grip" because I was expected to behave in xyz way - grief can be weird at times... and, in my case, I think I did my grieving for my mother when she gathered us all together that January day to tell us that she had Stage 4 lung cancer.
Accept that I might be snappy or randomly choked up and don't take it personally... others having a go at me made things 10x worse for me.
No screaming at me to "Just cry already" or "Get a grip" because I was expected to behave in xyz way - grief can be weird at times... and, in my case, I think I did my grieving for my mother when she gathered us all together that January day to tell us that she had Stage 4 lung cancer.
Accept that I might be snappy or randomly choked up and don't take it personally... others having a go at me made things 10x worse for me.