Brutally honest question: Stage four cancer is terminal right?

Most stage 4 cancer is deadly and can’t be cured. Some girl posted on her that her mother has stage four cancer and she believes her mom can fight this. I’m glad she had that positive mindset BUT she won’t accept that her mother is dying and can’t accept that it isn’t curable. I’m no sorry for what happened but I feel bad for her but she should have her mother suffering. She can’t get upset at this stuff because shit happens for a reason and she had to accept death is part of life. How can I get her to accept that stage four is terminal? She never mentioned about that. I’ve never heard of someone surviving stage four cancer. Sorry to sound harsh but it’s incurable.

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FreeSpirit1 · 51-55, F

Stage 4 is just about end stage

PetiteJulie01 · 22-25, F

@FreeSpirit1 I know that’s why this girl is DENSE about it. She won’t accept reality.

TexChik · F

@PetiteJulie01 So you want to force her to accept the harsh reality of her mother's impending death? Why does it bother you so much?

FreeSpirit1 · 51-55, F

@PetiteJulie01 she's not dense she is just hopeful ,,when you know someone's going to go you hold out hope that they won't

PetiteJulie01 · 22-25, F

@TexChik I’m not forcing her! I’m just saying she needs to accept that her mother won’t survive and will pass away. YOU said it yourself treatment fails to help. Her mother is going to die. She needs to be a grown up and accept it.

TexChik · F

@PetiteJulie01 She needs to love and cherish her mother as long as possible and hold on to hope . She is about to go through something more horrible than her own death, and that is the death of her beloved mother and what life is like without her in it. Its a horrible thing to experience and I have only empathy for that sweet girl as she suffers through this .

PetiteJulie01 · 22-25, F

@TexChik yes you are right. I feel bad for her