Ever have a UTI with no pain?

I'm trying to figure out why I keep getting incontinence... Sometimes a sudden urge to urinate, and other times, it can just keep coming out even after I'm done peeing. Ive kind of just dealt with it the last couple months, but I wonder if it's a UTI ? Of course I looked up info and there's a infection called silent UTI where no true symptoms present. Then it said people can have the UTI for months, but if it lasts months you can get a kidney infection or sepsis even..ughh I hate when I look up medical questions, so Many scary things to ponder.