Does anybody else get stressed when money is arriving and you know you can't handle it?

@Sutten well, that's two no's so far...it's starting to look like I could be abnormal

@atlantic59 I don't think that you are abnormal, I guess it comes down to what people need to do with the money. If I had some money coming in, I would pay off debt, invest some in a savings that would grow interest and put an amount aside to treat myself. It comes down to priorities. I know of some people who have so much debt but if they have money they blow it on parties and luxury instead of taking care of their responsibility. It may be that you don't have any debt etc. and are free to splurge, everyone has different obligations.

@Sutten yeah, you are one of those responsible ones who pay off debt and defer gratification for a later date. I don't have that in my makeup, unfortunately, and I think I'm too old to learn....hence the babysitter for me...but finding a good baby sitter could be another concern. I read Matthew Perry's book and he had personal assistants and I think his last one might have a bad one

@atlantic59 I still need to get around to finishing the audio as I don't have the book. Gone too soon.

@Sutten He died just a few months after I finished the book and I saw book tour interviews and it was quite a shock cause I thought he was maintaining but in retrospect, the signs of were all there with his maintenance program that he was always having to be on...he was never clean...going back to infancy when he was given phenobarbital for colic at between 30 and 60 days old...