tell me about your first experience at a swingers club or similar

I went once. It was in an industrial area of Dallas. We paid the fee and started by looking around. The reception area was nicely appointed with dishes full of condoms everywhere. We went to the locker room and put our clothes etc awsy. Then we looked around inside. This was on a friday night and the place was busy. The floors were covered in mattresses. Bare mattresses. The place stank of cigs and ammonia. The other people looked "rough." It was nasty. We got dressed and checked into a nice hotel downtown. I wouldn't try it again.