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I could never be with someone who is overly flirtatious.

Like it's great you like people and laugh with them. But face it, flirting isn't necessarily harmless.

When I think about how I feel when someone flirts with me, I feel special and happy to be noticed. I feel something deeper. But then when I see them flirt with twenty others the same, I know I'm not special. I feel more like personal amusement, like the flirt was poorly intended and meaningless. Is that supposed to feel good?

And if it's someone claiming they want me, but they still flirt all over the town, I don't believe them at all.

Nothing against being flirty, but don't flirt with a bunch of people and expect me to make you feel special. Because clearly you will rob me of feeling special the first and every chance you get.
Matt85 · 36-40, M
Yeah I get it.
Carissimi · F
Absolutely feel the same way. I could not be with a flirt. It’s shallow and insincere, and sincerity is very important to me, unless we all know someone is just joking around, and can laugh about it, but a serial flirt? It’s a turn off.
AlchemyFox · 36-40, F
@Carissimi Yup. Sincerity is hard to find.
Magenta · F
Spot on to how I think as well! 💕
It seems like a ego that needs constant stroking.
AlchemyFox · 36-40, F
@Magenta Exactly. Like how much attention do you need???? And what's gonna happen when I don't do it for you?
Magenta · F
@AlchemyFox Right?! How will you ever be enough.
Umile · 41-45, F
I think that way too.

Another way, is the time part. Some of us don't have enough time.

So, we have to " muktitask " and filter out the good ones.

Some look at it as being flirty/being polite. Sometimes they're just looking.

But, yeah. Some are thick skinned with it.

He'd earn it if he wanted though..

You're stunning so yeah..
AlchemyFox · 36-40, F
@Umile That's the part I think some people don't see, earning it. That goes both ways and if one is always looking elsewhere, they're devaluing it.
Umile · 41-45, F
@AlchemyFox I mostly agree with what you're saying.

His flowers mean nothing if he gives it to everyone in town.

If he's offering exclusivity to all of those women.
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WizardofOz · 26-30, M
That's actually a really good insight, I also agree. I dated a girl that would have a couple drinks and become the biggest flirt! As if that wasn't bad enough, it's the way she did it. She would become giggly and act stupid, like she was back in high school. What irritated me, was her motive behind it, because I believe it was only to make me jealous.
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I dated somebody that did that. When I talked to females, she felt threatened even if I was not even flirting. Yet, when she did it , it was totally okay. I never understand that concept at all
Blondily · F
I agree 100%!
I could never be involved with a flirt.
They're usually cheaters anyway and I won't settle for sloppy seconds! lol😏
AlchemyFox · 36-40, F
@Blondily that's right 😂 if they want to play dirty, they can stay outside.
Lilymoon · F
Hell yes. GTFO 🙄
AlchemyFox · 36-40, F
@Lilymoon ain't nobody got time for that clownery
DownTheStreet · 51-55, M
Hey sweetheart
AlchemyFox · 36-40, F
@DownTheStreet *calls 911
DownTheStreet · 51-55, M
@AlchemyFox gonna need a fire truck
AlchemyFox · 36-40, F
@DownTheStreet and you're gonna need an ambulance
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
Agreed, it’s gross behaviour.

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