I could never be with someone who is overly flirtatious.
Like it's great you like people and laugh with them. But face it, flirting isn't necessarily harmless.
When I think about how I feel when someone flirts with me, I feel special and happy to be noticed. I feel something deeper. But then when I see them flirt with twenty others the same, I know I'm not special. I feel more like personal amusement, like the flirt was poorly intended and meaningless. Is that supposed to feel good?
And if it's someone claiming they want me, but they still flirt all over the town, I don't believe them at all.
Nothing against being flirty, but don't flirt with a bunch of people and expect me to make you feel special. Because clearly you will rob me of feeling special the first and every chance you get.
When I think about how I feel when someone flirts with me, I feel special and happy to be noticed. I feel something deeper. But then when I see them flirt with twenty others the same, I know I'm not special. I feel more like personal amusement, like the flirt was poorly intended and meaningless. Is that supposed to feel good?
And if it's someone claiming they want me, but they still flirt all over the town, I don't believe them at all.
Nothing against being flirty, but don't flirt with a bunch of people and expect me to make you feel special. Because clearly you will rob me of feeling special the first and every chance you get.
