I could never be with someone who is overly flirtatious.

Like it's great you like people and laugh with them. But face it, flirting isn't necessarily harmless.

When I think about how I feel when someone flirts with me, I feel special and happy to be noticed. I feel something deeper. But then when I see them flirt with twenty others the same, I know I'm not special. I feel more like personal amusement, like the flirt was poorly intended and meaningless. Is that supposed to feel good?

And if it's someone claiming they want me, but they still flirt all over the town, I don't believe them at all.

Nothing against being flirty, but don't flirt with a bunch of people and expect me to make you feel special. Because clearly you will rob me of feeling special the first and every chance you get.

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Umile · 41-45, F

I think that way too.

Another way, is the time part. Some of us don't have enough time.

So, we have to " muktitask " and filter out the good ones.

Some look at it as being flirty/being polite. Sometimes they're just looking.

But, yeah. Some are thick skinned with it.

He'd earn it if he wanted though..

You're stunning so yeah..

SW-User

@Umile That's the part I think some people don't see, earning it. That goes both ways and if one is always looking elsewhere, they're devaluing it.

Umile · 41-45, F

@SW-User I mostly agree with what you're saying.

His flowers mean nothing if he gives it to everyone in town.

If he's offering exclusivity to all of those women.

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